You are a blacksmith of your self, of your inner world and being. Shape and mold yourself and who you are to your liking - this is in your power and this IS power.
Make yourself the blade you want to be, and if you mess up in the process throw it out and start again until you get it right. Sharpen it until you reach mastery, over and over again.
This is not an easy process.
You don’t get to sit around visualizing, feeling and imagining, then going to forums and repeating everything in a sense of poisonous, sweet satisfaction.
No, you’re digging through the mountains and mountains of your inner layers to find the truth of who you are.
It’s dirty, it’s painful, but you must always ask yourself.
Would you rather be stuck forever in the feel-good land, or do you want real, actual results, transformation and changes?