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This Diwali stuff is kind of awesome. Indian food is great LOL
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Exactly!! 
, I am so glad that you’ve come to this realization LOL.
“tactics” are nothing more than conscious compensation for not being able to tap into and create:
Tactics 100% work and men can do that, but it’s not ideal because there are much more effortless, easy and powerful ways to seduce. Men who are heavy on the tactics will always lose to the men who don’t need them and the depth of attraction which they are able to create will always comparatively be capped out on a surface level.
What’s better?
Strategizing for hours and hours, reading hundreds of books on seduction like it’s a university curriculum for a Master’s Degree and trying to implement it all habitually and in real-time, using conversation starter flash cards like you’re prepping for a job interview… doing all of that and getting superficial attraction tied to the tactics themselves more than it’s tied to your congruent being.
Or… just going in blind, present and naturally without a thought, being your authentic self and just auto-winning everything. No dishonesty tactics needed.
LOL this is literally the equivalent of “tactic” users versus real, congruent men. Pretty insane, right? There are levels, and Khan will bring you up to speed to the highest level. The Khan is not an amateur.
Fundamentally, women are hardwired to seek men who have congruent internal frameworks based on high self worth, high self-love, strong masculinity/personal power, emotional maturity (emotionally healed) and being sexually healed. You can’t get a more fundamental breakdown, because I’m going straight to the internal subconscious belief systems (this is equivalent of going down to the molecule).
All of this is what drives things like self-confidence, charisma, strong frames, high sociability/empathy, etc. You name it.
In 2022, what I described would constitute as being an Alpha Male (a healed man since a Beta Male is nothing more than a traumatized male). Having all of those requirements in the internal framework would mean that you are physically healthy in general and have good hygiene. Being healed from internal trauma automatically manifests as good health. This is why people are starting to workout, take care of their bodies and not put processed trash/poison in their body with subs like LBFH, because they subconsciously deserve better and are treating their human vessel/body suit with the compassion that it deserves instead of self-sabotaging due to emotional trauma.
Congruent is bolded because it manifests and looks a very specific way. There are too many examples of this, but I’ll just quickly pull one out.
Self Worth for example.
Congruent Self-Worth is respectful, cordial, calm, confident.
Incongruent Self-worth looks a very specific way. It’s entitled, overly prideful, boastful and demanding. All of which are insanely unattractive. The self-worth is based on conscious inflated framing as a self-defense mechanism tied to the ego, in order to compensate for both a lack of self-worth in the internal framework and the inability to cope with the resulted feelings of inadequacy. Hence why it’s incongruent. It’s all a mess.
Congruence is always beautiful, it’s like a Fibonacci sequence in a flower, LOL.
Anyways, all traits that women find unattractive in men are incongruent traits born out of internal trauma in the man.
The women always choose the man who’s more congruent.
Everything I mentioned is foundational to make you the cookie-cutter Alpha Male who has no problem getting women. After that, is when you can build upon your foundation with intangibles like auras, pheromones, becoming better looking, etc. If you’re healthy, then improving your looks will be low ROI and it’s the most “in the box” sword, bow and arrowey type of thing lol. Stuff like auras, sexual energy, thoughtforms, pheromone manipulation is plasma alien technology and puts sticks/stones to shame. The crazier stuff is the high ROI stuff, that the average noob person who binges netflix/youtube/pua all day while living in a limited box of how reality works can’t fathom on any level. LOL
Those who expand their minds, reap all of the rewards of life.
I’m bringing this in my journal because it follows the congruent/incongruence chain LOL thanks.
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Your explanation was very detailed and interesting. Thanks so much for the post and very helpful.
I remember you talked about congruence and other interesting topics in detail, on other threads. How do you know so many things?
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@Skadoosh You talk about trauma a lot which I’m in full agreement it screws up a lot. I’m 31 and this past year I’ve only been able to understand the extent of my own. One of the biggest symptoms I’ve found is the denial that there is trauma there. That’s the first hurdle.
Out of curiosity where did you come from trauma wise and what did you do to overcome it? Obviously you don’t have to go into specifics. But I’ve found healing from trauma is not straightforward at all. The level of self compassion one needs to not overdo it is absent and sometimes you can end up in this screwed up loop of biting off more than you can chew and consequently beating yourself up for not handling it. The very things necessary for supporting growth tend to be absent when you’ve got trauma. In addition to that everyone has their own path working with it. What works for some won’t work for others. I’d just be interested to hear your thoughts on it more when you have time.
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LOL, don’t worry about all of that!
Keep killing it like an absolutely badass
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Thanks for the response. Some good insight in there to pull from.
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Lol no need to thank me 
, swing by anytime Mr. Vision. I believe in you mate
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Step 4 is the most important time to stay with a sub, that’s the hinge point where change is on the other side. That fear is the subconscious mind’s last ditch effort to reject the changes coming before it becomes too late. 
Bruh. Goals.
It’s not that WANTED doesn’t fit you.
You’re in what’s called the WANTED paradox.
Listen very carefully to what I’m breaking down here because this is somewhat advanced:
The desire to run WANTED for most men comes from a place of low self-love/self-worth. They want the validation of women chasing them and swooning over them, just as you described. It’s extremely typical, cookie-cutter and normal.
However… that exact desire is a direct block to the goal of WANTED and so it’s pulled to the surface. The men are made aware of it in order to grow out of it because it holds them back. This will occur 100% of the time.
Connect all the dots of what I just explained.
That desire you had for running WANTED is actually in direct conflict with the goal of WANTED itself.
So the more you progress with WANTED, the less that desire will be there.
It’s a brilliant paradox and this can apply to many realms of growth but I will keep it relevant to your situation.
These paradoxes are precisely why ZP makes you more aware of WHAT you want and WHY you want it. It’s because ZP is based on congruence, and more often than not… the reasons for running the subliminal in the first place are incompatible with the congruent internal framework of the end goal.
Quick Example: Beta Male is internally traumatized so he runs Khan out of the desire to conquer, dominate and tower over everyone. That desire itself, is being driven by internal trauma… it’s overexaggerated compensation for a lack of internal power. So when they start running Khan, they’re filled with internal power and now the initial reason that they had for running it… is no longer there. The desire to run it has been offset by the congruent development. That’s the thing with congruence, it looks a certain way.
What you need to do is find within you a different reason for running WANTED than you once had. If you’re unable to find that reason, then indeed WANTED is not for you.
I can offer a few that worked for me:
- wanting to explore sexuality, romance and attraction from a place of curiosity/appreciation for life
- boredom (screw it lets just see what happens and have fun)
- lackluster romantic/sex life that you want to improve on because you deserve it
- become a more attractive version of yourself as way of learning what that’s like as an experience while focusing on what it can teach you
Those are just off the top, but yeah this:
- I want to feel good with having women swoon and lust after me
is not going to work as a reason. The internal framework attached to that is very weak/beta male and not going to cut it for the progression with WANTED because it’s objectively unattractive. It’s based on unaddressed internal trauma and is therefore incongruent.
In order to become a congruent WANTED man, that type of disposition won’t be there… it’s literally impossible.
You’re actually still progressing with WANTED and it’s extremely clear.
Clear progression. Your entire journal is riddled with signs of progression with WANTED. You even mentioned getting insane IOI’s which is no better indicator of being a “wanted”.
Exactly. You’re only able to attract the women that are compatible to your level of congruence. You’re still holding onto a paradigm that is fundamentally conflicting with the overall goal of WANTED so there you have it.
If you keep progressing you will keep growing and unlock access to the type of women you want - as a reflection of your own growth and development with the subliminal.
This is how your journey has went.
- Virgin running WANTED.
- Got a girl, got insane IOI’s, but from women that don’t interest you.
- Thinking about dropping the sub by questioning your initial reason for running it.
Your #3 is directly connect to the “but from women that don’t interest you”. It’s all part of your progression, lol.
Note: This is all my opinion.
Bringing this to my journal because it fits with the thread of congruence/incongruence. LOL thanks!
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was a tough pill to swallow but all you’re saying makes sense. Thanks for your great thoughts, i definitely learned something valuable today.
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hmmm… good question. I don’t know. It could be more like performance review.
current khan playlist, lol
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Woke up this morning and just felt like a total badass. These feelings are too strong it’s like I wake up on morphine. Once you get through the healing/recon, you just feel incredible.
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