Hey everyone. I’m new here and I need some recommendations on how to start with subliminals. Some background about me: I’m 44 years old, I divorced 5 years ago and that was a very traumatic experience for me. It was a very tough divorce and I actually needed a few years to get over it, even if it was my desire to divorce (and it was the best choice I ever took).
I started dating only 2-3 years after the divorce and I’m doing OKish, but not great. I can talk - general conversation - with girls, I can make them laugh, smile etc but when it’s about transitioning to sexual I still find it difficult and hesitate. Or maybe I dont have the courage to do it. If I can get a girl at my home - and several times I did it - from that moment I’m fine and know what to do, have confidence cause I know I will make her feel great and I’m fine.
I started learning to dance - salsa, bachata and now kizomba - 3 years ago and now I’m quite good at it. Later I discovered I can actually use dance for seduction when a woman is at my home. But It also happened to me that at the dancing classes younger girls liked me. And I dont know (or dont have the courage) to escalate this. It is also cause most women I dated are 35-45 years old and the girls at the dances are much younger, usually 20-25 years old. It’s true that I look younget and I can say without hesitating I’m 35-38 years old… and I look that age.
So my first issue is getting over the anxiety to approach girls, especially the younger ones. Or not hesitating and postponing it again and again.
The 2nd issue I want to improve is general confidence and alpha attitude. Before the divorce I had a more visible alpha attitude but somewhere on the road I lost it.
And I also want to be more results oriented in business. I’m doing fine actually but it was a luck I had and my customers actually searched me. But I also had big financial challenges and I want to be more money oriented and have more focus on doing what I know I have to do and stop postponing.
So, what I want to improve is:
-getting over approach anxiety,
- being more social with girls (especially younger ones )
- improving my business
I practiced meditation daily for years and I also practiced personal development for years. I also walked several spiritual journeys in the last years (the Spanish Camino de Santiago) and I enjoyed it.
A few days ago it happened that by accident I listened to a sub called The Sphinx of Imagination by Hypnotica. And I saw how it touched me, what I felt… during listening it and after. When I finished it I felt like being from another world. Strange. This is why I am here now.
I can create as much time as necessary for this, but I prefer to not force things, I like your gradual approach.
What subs can you recommend me to start with and use in the first months?