My man for you to say that you got cuffed AND you’re keeping your options open it sounds like you’re transforming. And it sounds like that transformation is scary af for you and creating new realities you’re not used to. And it sounds like LBFH is the comforting, feel good, everything is perfect no matter what sub that makes you feel good (safe.)
Just treat it as Phoenix recon but push through it… lower the loops, or even drop Phoenix for a whole week (without replacing it) and then keep going.
Sanguine is a nice addition to a stack if you need it as well, IIRC it still doesn’t count as a title in the 3-title-stack