Update: I am still listening to Khan Stage 1 exclusively. I could not keep with my journal because I got swamped in the last days going out having fun and meeting new people. A concrete correlation to the sub but more on this now.
In the first few days, when I was listening to Khan, I became very fatigued and irritable. Whenever somebody said something I disliked, I suddenly burst out loudly and got very emotional. This kind of behaviour is not typical to me as I am a person who can control his temper well. My friends and family had to draw my attention to it so that I stopped - at least until the next thing came up and I exploded again.
This behaviour vanished in the last two days more and more as I read @AMASH journal and decided to listen to fewer loops each day. However, I still get furious on more significant things - for example, I got mad at my friend who always agrees to an idea and then cancels in the last minute. I just feel like he is wasting my time. I told him I have enough! I feel like Khan is giving power and an extreme high self-image valuing myself and my time on an intimidating level without being too delusional.
In the gym, I meet a guy I have seen twice before at a party. It turns out he is as passionate as me about training reading and watching all the expert advice on how to practice scientifically. That was the first time I exercised with a fellow for like one year or so because I hate to sabotage my training by having somebody else there who is only doing “biceps curls every day”. He introduced me to his friend, and we had a blast in the gym. The Daredevil script is working here.
That day I also went to a concert where a friend of mine was singing. She looked gorgeous in her dress, moving her ass. This is something I notice as well; I am far more focused on girls. Everywhere I go, I now spot beautiful girls and look them straight in the eyes. They also make me quite horny, and I feel more at ease with my own sexuality. For example, after the concert, I went to her and leaned in and told her that only she could hear how brilliant she looked in her dress. She turned red but was LOVING it. When I left the room, she giggled cutely and waved at me, becoming a bit red again. I felt so comfortable and confident at the moment.
That night I went to a party with another girl who has a boyfriend. We talked enthusiastically on the way there, and I noticed how sexual I was - even though I have no sexual interest in the girl. I feel like this sexuality became a part of me in the last days as our conversation got spiked with sexual excitement pretty fast. She loved it, I loved it, and we just had fun - without it being over the top or creepy at any time.
The party we went to was a huge graduation party, where there were at least 120 people invited. She is a shy girl, and we both did only know 2-3 people, so I knew that at some point I would have to speak to new people. For the first half of the night, I stayed with her. I am extroverted, but at the party, I was so at ease and in the zone, I have rarely experienced before. I instantly knew how to make her more comfortable. So we had a drink first, chatted and gossiped about some peoples dress (her idea ^^) and then I lead her to the dance floor, we danced for a while, backed off to drink again and gossip more and repeat. And I tell you guys, we had some fun! One hour later you would not recognise the shy girl I wrote about above: We were dancing wildly next to the dance floor having the time of our life.
She then left, and I knew now I am just here by myself. One week ago I would have been scared like crazy but not on this day. I went to the dancefloor, approached the girl I already know, lead her to another group of people I found more interesting. Danced some more, switched groups again, and somehow, I found myself surrounded by three new girls that were all looking at me curiously. Then the music changed to some horrible song, and all of us stopped dancing. I said something to the group, and they agreed that the music what terrible. So we were now standing there on the dancefloor waiting for the song to finish. I decided to take action now and open them properly. I leaned in, gave the one girl my hand which was LOOKING at me ALL THE TIME, introduced myself and then did the same to her hotter friend. We chatted for a bit, and I then told her that I want to shot with her. She was down, and we went together to the bar. The MOMENT we headed off, I felt a light sensation in my underwear: I knew it was on. We chatted some more, and we got along well. She is 19, and I am 17; when she asked me about my age, I instantly set the frame that she is seducing me which is illegal because I am not 18 and that she is SUCH a BAD girl etc. She was enjoying it and replied: “Ahhhh we did not have anything YET ;=)”. Then I introduced her to a friend of mine. She tried to shit test me by only talking to the guy seeing how I react. This was something I always feared because I had some trauma in the past where one guy was always stealing my girl. However, on this day I stayed relaxed and literally after one minute the other guy was deferring to me looking to me when he spoke. I knew this shit test was passed. Then I made a strategic mistake. The guy asked me to come and dance, and I agreed and took her with me. I should’ve stayed and talked to her a bit more to spike up the sexual tension and isolate her go for the makeout. Instead, we danced, and she left to go to the bathroom. I did not want to wait for her, so I approached another group in the meantime. I then lost her and as I saw her again, the dance floor was full and she was surrounded by her friends guarding her. I had to leave so I decided to number close her. She gave me her number and I knew by the way she reacted that I could have gone for the makeout if I stayed longer.
Anyway, I was so proud of myself because this was actually the first time I approached a girl I did not know, isolated her and had some 1:1 time with her. I felt like a fucking pimp to be honest. Also I found out that opening is no big deal. The thing I feared for almost two years turned out to be fun to be honest! I imagine how every night out will be different from now on as I can talk to everyone I like with such ease!