The Sanctuary concept is one I picked up from one of hypnosis mentors. He described Sanctuary as:
"that place within your mind where you are THE MOST IN CONTROL. Sanctuary is a great place to ‘chill out’ to relax and get away. Sanctuary recharges you each time you go there.
One of the things I do with hypnosis clients is use the session to “install”/“uncover” their sanctuary. I use Direct/Authoritarian hypnosis for it, but it works with any kind of hypnosis. SubClub even has a “Sanctuary” module in the Q Custom store. I haven’t used it myself yet.
To “install” your own sanctuary, it’s really as simple as sitting or lying down, eyes closed. And clear your mind as much as possible other than to ask:
If I were in that one place in my mind where I am THE MOST IN CONTROL:
What does it look like there?
What sounds do I hear there?
What smells are there?
How do I feel being in this place?
You’ll find that, given enough time, details will become more and more permanent.
The key to Sanctuary is consistency.
My Sanctuary acts as a springboard to other “locations” in my mind.
In my Sanctuary, there’s:
- A door that leads to a construct space like in “The Matrix”.
- Another door leads to a “meeting place” where I can do self-guided NLP-style “parts work”.
- Another door leads to what is called my “Learning Place”. That’s a whole other post, but think of it like a super-advanced form of Memory Palace.
- Another door leads to a Silva-style mental workshop. I’m still working to make use of that. It’s kinda dormant for now until I get it working.
- Yet another door leads off to a movie theater like one might imagine when doing NLP stuff like the Fast Phobia Cure. Serves as a mechanism to dissociate by putting events up on the screen rather than associating into them directly.
- I also have an Amnesia Vault in the Sanctuary. I can put stuff in there I never want to know/see again. It does double duty for putting a symbolic representation of earworms into.
Now that all that is out of the way, suffice to say that when I run subs now, if I’m at home, I close eyes and think “Sanctuary” to go there.
The main area of Sanctuary has a recliner I sit in. I chose that because I sit in a recliner in the living room. So it’s easy to feel myself in a recliner in Sanctuary. I sometimes will sit in the Sanctuary recliner while running subs. I’ll just experience being in Sanctuary while the sub runs.
More often lately, though, I’ll sit in the movie theater while running. Staring up at the screen while running subs. To see if/what shows up on the screen as a result.
I make this all sound way more complicated than it is. Really it’s about imagining the perfect Sanctuary for you.
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