I think that loosing the what the sub can make someone feel is an important step toward growth
Like in a gym you don’t always workout, there is a moment where you loose the pump (except at a master level of bodybuilding but there is years before getting there) then after the pump healing occurs
So loosing what the sub has gave you is important, it’s a necessary struggle to motivate the brain toward growth in the direction the sub has shown
If one is always under the stimulus of subs, the brain will learn to ignore it
It is something bound to happen that is “getting accustomed” but I think a lot of people will wish for it to come at the latest stage it can
Writting this here for me to remember and anyone who see wisdom in it
I know that it has already been talked about or mentioned but I felt like pushing it
Now that I’ve written it I have to stick to it lmao thanks me
A metaphor that just occured to me is one of someone jumping on a trampoline, the one profiting from the fall will gain lot’s of momentum and will ever rise higher at every jump, but the one smacking as fast the elastic net as he can will jump fast for sure but at a height quite ridiculous