Your explanation was very detailed and interesting. Thanks so much for the post and very helpful.
I remember you talked about congruence and other interesting topics in detail, on other threads. How do you know so many things?
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@Skadoosh You talk about trauma a lot which I’m in full agreement it screws up a lot. I’m 31 and this past year I’ve only been able to understand the extent of my own. One of the biggest symptoms I’ve found is the denial that there is trauma there. That’s the first hurdle.
Out of curiosity where did you come from trauma wise and what did you do to overcome it? Obviously you don’t have to go into specifics. But I’ve found healing from trauma is not straightforward at all. The level of self compassion one needs to not overdo it is absent and sometimes you can end up in this screwed up loop of biting off more than you can chew and consequently beating yourself up for not handling it. The very things necessary for supporting growth tend to be absent when you’ve got trauma. In addition to that everyone has their own path working with it. What works for some won’t work for others. I’d just be interested to hear your thoughts on it more when you have time.
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LOL, don’t worry about all of that!
Keep killing it like an absolutely badass
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Thanks for the response. Some good insight in there to pull from.
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Lol no need to thank me 
, swing by anytime Mr. Vision. I believe in you mate
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Step 4 is the most important time to stay with a sub, that’s the hinge point where change is on the other side. That fear is the subconscious mind’s last ditch effort to reject the changes coming before it becomes too late. 
Bruh. Goals.
It’s not that WANTED doesn’t fit you.
You’re in what’s called the WANTED paradox.
Listen very carefully to what I’m breaking down here because this is somewhat advanced:
The desire to run WANTED for most men comes from a place of low self-love/self-worth. They want the validation of women chasing them and swooning over them, just as you described. It’s extremely typical, cookie-cutter and normal.
However… that exact desire is a direct block to the goal of WANTED and so it’s pulled to the surface. The men are made aware of it in order to grow out of it because it holds them back. This will occur 100% of the time.
Connect all the dots of what I just explained.
That desire you had for running WANTED is actually in direct conflict with the goal of WANTED itself.
So the more you progress with WANTED, the less that desire will be there.
It’s a brilliant paradox and this can apply to many realms of growth but I will keep it relevant to your situation.
These paradoxes are precisely why ZP makes you more aware of WHAT you want and WHY you want it. It’s because ZP is based on congruence, and more often than not… the reasons for running the subliminal in the first place are incompatible with the congruent internal framework of the end goal.
Quick Example: Beta Male is internally traumatized so he runs Khan out of the desire to conquer, dominate and tower over everyone. That desire itself, is being driven by internal trauma… it’s overexaggerated compensation for a lack of internal power. So when they start running Khan, they’re filled with internal power and now the initial reason that they had for running it… is no longer there. The desire to run it has been offset by the congruent development. That’s the thing with congruence, it looks a certain way.
What you need to do is find within you a different reason for running WANTED than you once had. If you’re unable to find that reason, then indeed WANTED is not for you.
I can offer a few that worked for me:
- wanting to explore sexuality, romance and attraction from a place of curiosity/appreciation for life
- boredom (screw it lets just see what happens and have fun)
- lackluster romantic/sex life that you want to improve on because you deserve it
- become a more attractive version of yourself as way of learning what that’s like as an experience while focusing on what it can teach you
Those are just off the top, but yeah this:
- I want to feel good with having women swoon and lust after me
is not going to work as a reason. The internal framework attached to that is very weak/beta male and not going to cut it for the progression with WANTED because it’s objectively unattractive. It’s based on unaddressed internal trauma and is therefore incongruent.
In order to become a congruent WANTED man, that type of disposition won’t be there… it’s literally impossible.
You’re actually still progressing with WANTED and it’s extremely clear.
Clear progression. Your entire journal is riddled with signs of progression with WANTED. You even mentioned getting insane IOI’s which is no better indicator of being a “wanted”.
Exactly. You’re only able to attract the women that are compatible to your level of congruence. You’re still holding onto a paradigm that is fundamentally conflicting with the overall goal of WANTED so there you have it.
If you keep progressing you will keep growing and unlock access to the type of women you want - as a reflection of your own growth and development with the subliminal.
This is how your journey has went.
- Virgin running WANTED.
- Got a girl, got insane IOI’s, but from women that don’t interest you.
- Thinking about dropping the sub by questioning your initial reason for running it.
Your #3 is directly connect to the “but from women that don’t interest you”. It’s all part of your progression, lol.
Note: This is all my opinion.
Bringing this to my journal because it fits with the thread of congruence/incongruence. LOL thanks!
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was a tough pill to swallow but all you’re saying makes sense. Thanks for your great thoughts, i definitely learned something valuable today.
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hmmm… good question. I don’t know. It could be more like performance review.
current khan playlist, lol
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Woke up this morning and just felt like a total badass. These feelings are too strong it’s like I wake up on morphine. Once you get through the healing/recon, you just feel incredible.
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Yesterday was crazy… LOL.
Way too many things happened and I don’t feel like typing right now but I’m a wizard lol
My face is permanently like this for today 
all is love and god is good
You didn’t ask me… but LOL.
This is 42 seconds of semantics. It’s all semantics.
When we say that the subconscious mind is “below” the conscious mind, we are talking about it as in, it’s deep and beneath your conscious awareness.
This is extremely basic and simple stuff. For example, the study of Hypnosis is all about the subconscious mind and involves entering deeper states.
Definition of Deep: extending far down from the top or surface.
So you’re going below the conscious mind to access a deeper part of you. That’s why we use the word “below”… because it’s deeper and below your conscious awareness.
All of this is just common sense based on the English language. Everyone gets it.
Bashar is proposing the the idea that saying it’s “beneath” or “below” your conscious awareness somehow gives the impression that your conscious mind is in “charge”… which makes absolutely zero sense.
Everyone knows how vastly in “charge” the subconscious mind is and how much more powerful it is than the conscious mind. With that knowledge, we still refer to it as being below the conscious awareness and as part of a deeper extension of the mind.
So I don’t understand Bashar’s argument in a practical manner.
What Bashar is doing in that video, is the equivalent of trying to be a “smartass”. We all encounter kids like this in school. Everyone is on the same page and then 1 kid tries to play with semantics and words in an “aha moment” type of way, to create a new way of looking at things.
Creativity is good, however. Does that new way of looking at things offer something more than the standard way of looking at it?
Ask yourself the question: What does Bashar’s alternative view, realistically offer.
Also ask yourself, if what it offers is profoundly beneficial enough to switch to, despite the mental effort required in re-configurating the current standard modus of understanding. The moment that it doesn’t, is when you’re dealing with overcomplication for the sake of one’s ego. Also known as the person in the classroom who’s trying to be a smartass.
New Age gurus love to play with semantics because it’s NLP to make them seem like they know “more” or that they’re somehow more “wise”… but yet it realistically offers nothing. It automatically creates appeal to authority and puts them in the position of an “expert” which allows them to have more influence over gullible and disempowered people. This is overwhelmingly prevalent in the “spiritual” market/realm because nothing is tangible… it’s all ideological. This is extremely effective to the average, gullible person for various reasons. It’s the same type of NLP and manipulation that cult leaders use.
You can often smell out spiritual incongruence when the individual starts speaking like a supernatural being, guru, sage or monk.
The person who actually knows their shit, knows how to convey it in a way that can be digested and easily understood without complication - which is by itself a testament to them truly knowing their shit.
Of course this is all my opinion lol.
Putting this in my journal because it’s sort of related to congruence/incongruence LOL thanks!
Have a good day
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