Hi there,
I found this website by chance while i was looking for reviews on hypnotica programs and I was gonna start using his “collection of confidence” but maybe you guys can suggest me better hypnotic (reprogramming beliefs audios) products. I emailed hypnotica (Eric Von Sydow) himself asking him questions about his products but he never replies so dont feel bad about suggesting to me products that you think will help me more than his.
About me I suffered physical bullying since i was 7 until 15, unfortunately I was born being a sensitive guy so the bullying destroyed 95% of my sense of self-worth and i felt like shit almost all my life until a little miracle (its a long story about the miracle but i can post it another time) happened when i was around 29 years old and finally i saw the light at the end of the tunnel and finally started a journey out of the claws of depression.
Nowadays i think i am a positive and mostly happy guy in my 40s but the beliefs that got installed in my head when i was been bullied still had a strong hold on my brain, for example I currently do retail sales (a job for college students) even though i studied university in canada (i am an immigrant though, english is not my first language) to be an accountant, yes i tried hard to get an accounting firm job but the competition was tough and the truth i think i gave up too soon, in my previous jobs i was able comfortable in the entry level positions and never felt like taking on more senior roles cuz i was afraid of the responsibility but also (and most important) anxiety quicks in when under pressure and that makes me forget things and my multitasking abilities go to zero when under pressure. I had situations in my professional life and as a student in which after reading tony robins book “awaken the giant within” i shot for the stars but i landed in the mud (I strongly believe due to my inner unempowering beliefs) and it FUCKING HURT and i am afraid to try again.
Anyway i am going off topic here, the point is that even though I dont think i am depressed anymore I still have unconcious disempowering beliefs in my head that are holding me back in all areas of my life but the ones i need to tackle urgently are “relationships with women” and “getting a better paying job”. As probably anyone can guess when you are a teen with no self esteem you cannot interact with women, you dont have that inner happiness and light in your soul that makes women interested in you, due to that until this day I never had a girlfriend (probably due to a belief such as “I am not worthy to deserve the love of a woman”) thank god though i always had high testosterone so after I was gaining my happiness back in my 30s I finally started to talk to women in bars (after drinking a lot) and started to have my first kisses in my life and maybe once a year i would bring a woman home with me. Unfortunately after more than a decade my situation with women hasnt changed, i tried dating apps, i met some women through friends but i never got a girlfriend, just a ramdon make out session in a bar. So i took a look at my life and i realized i am a low value guy and i need to grow in other areas of my life but most important i need to improve my mindset (rewire my brain and get rid of whatever shit i have in my head) if i want to make more $$ so i can buy my own place (right now i have some savings and an old car and live in a house sharing with 2 other guys).
Because its a TOP priority to get better with women is that I was looking at hypnotica products amongn them, “mythos of masculinity” (that apparently is an unfinished product), “attractor factor”, “metamorphosis” among others, and in that search i found the subliminal club so i hope you guys (and girls) can point me in the right direction.
This is gonna sound a bit strange (but believe me when you are a guy with high testosterone who still have not developed the skills and mindset to seduce women in your 40s you would understand) but right now my priority is to develop the beliefs and mindset that will make it easier for me to feel confident and go to talk to women (without getting drunk) and make them feel interested in me as a man. Probably some of you would say that is better to heal my self esteem first (so i dont get validation or happiness by sleeping with lots of women) and then after i am a more healed guy i should learn the skills.
But please right now i need to develop the confidence to talk to females everywhere (supermarket, bars, gym etc) and increase my chances to meet a wonderful one, once i can accomplish that it will be easier to work on my other issues (like unreleased traumas, or change my mindset about getting a job with more responsibilities or maybe finally forgive my parents for not having realized i was going through hell in school and not pull me out of it). I hope there will be some members here that understand my needs and maybe point me to what products or audios you guys offer here (assuming you think they are better than hypnotica’s).
BTW for being in my 40s i have many positive things to be thankful for, i eat decently and as a result i am probably among the very few older men who have almost no belly (well i also run on the treadmill 3 times a week lol), due to my lack of experience with women i hold almost no grudge against them so i am very open to learn with them, i do no drugs and my alcohol i only do it when im going out to bars, and i am told i have a very “nice guy” vibe (probably more due to me being a bit feminine in my interaction with everybody, and also due to probably me being stuck in some kind of childhood mentality due to my bullying trauma) and im general i am positive and friendly, i can still smile like a kid if i want to (i know it sounds creepy that a 40 year old can still have a kiddy smile but please dont judge).
I am sorry i discover this website 2 days ago and today i signed up, i have many things to do in my plate and i havent had the time to research this wonderful website i am not 100% sure how the structure works but i will figure it out:
what i please need help with is:
what audios or programs or subs do i need to buy (or become a member of) in order to start rewiring my mind to become more successful with women? (apparently there are these “primal” and “primal seduction” audios that i can start listening to?
OR
would you recommend me to do the hypnotica programs instead? if thats the case which one would you recommend me “collection of confidence” or “attractor factor” or “metamorphosis” or “masculine matrix” or “hoponopono” or “the attractivator”
Again I am sorry guys if i sound like a free-loader but there are many things i need to get done and i dont have the time now to dig through all the posts in here (before i discover this site i spent like 1 week going through reddit posts looking for reviews on hypnotica products, asking questions about other hypnotic brain rewiring products with pretty much no answer given to me) since i wasnt planning on doing so but still i hope that i get some replies and suggestions from u guys,
also feel free to suggest other programs that are out of the scope of this website, i heard good things about the “Lefkoe method” and also on “rapid transformational hypnotherapy (RTT)” by Marisa Peer, I would be willing to try them along the audios here if u guys think that would be a better combo that could bring me faster results. Eventually I am even willing to burn my savings on a personal psycotherapist but only if none of this stuff online works and i hope thats not the case, i dont wanna spend the rest of my life alone
I’ll try to reply as soon as i can but at work is hard to use my phone but i will reply eventually
Thank you for reading this too long of a post.
Cheers everybody