That’s here that you fail to go beyong the anaytical
A 9 or 10 guy in your eyes with no charisma no status, no game, acting just like an ashole, being ankward will always be relegated to a lower score than an actual 9 or 10 no matter his height or face structure because you simply lack the understanding that women are mostly not analytical men in their perception of the world
Does that make sense to you because I swear it’s important
That’s why feelings created by magnetism (overall atractivness) is always going to be stronger componant to most women, they simply work from another perspective but that you seem to brush that fact away because of your experience with women being mostly attracted by look (to be expected from women you only have sex a few times with or meet only one night at the nightclub, you forgot that it represent only a small part of the whole spectrum)
You’ve framed yourself toward those type of girls, so of course don’t expect to see otherwise and don’t expect either to be able to experience otherwise enough to feel like it’s imporant to play part of your equation
What you frame you can’t see beyond
By being overly analytical what you’d be the best at attracting is in fact other men, or really masculine women and only looks based women