I deleted my reply cuz it looks like a cope, this black pill type sh*t tends to make me feel insecure and get defensive (as I’m sure it does other guys) but I legit do see relatively short and average looking guys with attractive girls pretty damn often.
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Don’t even entertain that rotten ideology. All it does is weaken you - there is nothing to be learned from it. Don’t talk about it, don’t look at it, don’t associate with people in it, don’t even think about it. All it will do is the same degenerate effect it has on anyone and anything it touches.
Embrace and consistently train a belief of pushing yourself through any and all challenges, regardless of any potential faults or weaknesses you might have. Over time this will create an inner quality that is vastly more beneficial and powerful on all levels of your life, including attraction.
Of course, that does not mean to ignore your appearance completely. Groom, shower, smell good, trim, dress well, take care of your health. Learn martial arts and dance (every man should have at least basic proficiency in both - and they are very closely connected, so an excellent martial artist will pick up dance quick) and hit the gym or rings - everyone should, with the only acceptable excuse if they are engaged in high level legitimate spiritual practice under a qualified teacher (as one eventually hits a limit to how high they can progress) - the benefits are simply too great across all aspects of one’s life.
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