This guy is a LEGIT information box
Well, this is me
It was because of someoneâs recon
Is this what you mean?
Some people never learn from their mistakes lol
In your case, it sounds like youâre overdoing it. If it was anger or depression, you would have to ask yourself what is causing it. You can treat it once you know what is causing those feelings. If was victim mentality, you might need to run an alpha or a healing title.
The last time Alphamale started a thread called âTaking action on reconâ, he mentioned kicking someone in the face and âstarting a facebook controversyâ. That thread was unlisted shortly afterwards.
That is all.
victim mentality is when you feel very passive and non-assertive? when someone can tell and slap you but you wouldnât do to him anything because of your mental breakdown (recon)?
No
Thinking about yourself as a victim of your parentsâ behavior when you were a child
Meaning: not necessary to talk about that anymore
I donât believe in recon anymore and I call it âregression/aggressionâ (depending on its form). Hereâs how I dealt with it today:
Well I did this, as you can see in my other thread
But by action I mean doing sth regarding sub purpose
By changing itâs name u wanna state that itâs much more intense?
No, itâs more about describing two different forms of so-called âreconâ (regression/aggression) and the fact that itâs just a part of your growth - switching between your old and new âselfâ (a part of your transgression).
Regression is about contracting within your old âselfâ and itâs like trying to defend it (getting vulnerable, restless, and âlocked inside yourselfâ) whilst aggression is about getting angry and out of control âattackingâ your new âselfâ (and your âenvironmentâ) in order to protect your old âselfâ. Those are signs that your transgression has got pretty intense and you may expect a major shift as the result.
Please stop making comments that could be sarcastic or taunting or condescending.
This is a warning.
Thank you
@RVconsultant
I think adding the ânot acting like forum moderator and just flagging the postâ law should be added to campfire policy
I post sth and people come and start a protest
Maybe I subconsciously did it for courting attention
But there is not unjust topic in these and people should not come and say limit yourself to this amount of posts per-day
Even if they donât flag you will see it cuz you are an active one
If you see the conflicts start from where they start to patronize
When someone comes and compares him/herself to me which is a foolish thing to do, shouldnât I say âblah blah blahâ? I really mean that this comparing idea is foolish