Sex vs Masturbation

[RagnarLothbrok]

The weird thing is that i do think about having sex, but it always with other women and not my gf

[RagnarLothbrok]

@R.E.M.P.O

Do you think there might be some unresolved emotional energy between you two that could be affecting your intimacy? Exploring and healing these emotions together could potentially enhance your overall connection and intimacy.

I don’t know

[summit]

@SaintSovereign

By withholding release until actual sex, I have found that the sensation itself is far more pleasurable than anything one can do alone.

This.

Take 10 days or so without any sexual stimulation @RagnarLothbrok as a sort of reset, and see if sex with your gf doesn’t feel better than what you’re doing without her.

[RagnarLothbrok]

@summit

Take 10 days or so without any sexual stimulation @RagnarLothbrok as a sort of reset, and see if sex with your gf doesn’t feel better than what you’re doing without her.

I will

[Jouissance]

@RagnarLothbrok

im hoping The New Khan will be enough to help me with this issue

spend some extended time on ST1 if this is the goal.

[Simon]

@RagnarLothbrok

im hoping The New Khan will be enough to help me with this issue

It’s already working…

@RagnarLothbrok

She complains only when we don’t have sex, sometimes i feel like she wants it more than i do

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@RagnarLothbrok

i do think about having sex, but it always with other women and not my gf

Dress up your gf as other women … RolePlay.

Boring sex is boring on Khan.

Higher Standards.

@GoldenTiger

Sex was great today
…
Got a rope and tied my gf up.

You’re welcome.

[saint]

@Psiklou

In comparison, while running KB1 ad Wanted Black, I had no interest in porn and masturbation, like zero craving. And I enjoyed the sex with my girls so much, the sex itself and everything around: the environment, the girl feminine energy, the whole experience.

@Psiklou so you went from boring monogamous sex life → harem using KB and WB? If I’m understanding correctly you made your real life a porn site Epic

@SaintSovereign

Go do a few rounds of Primal Nights. That issue of sex feeling like a chore will vanish.

Really curious about this. @RagnarLothbrok I think you can run PN as a “booster”, so sprinkle it in if you can? Hope you can solve your issues. This is a good problem to have, and hopefully it’s fun to resolve it!

[Phoenix]

It is just a tool to check if you had the stamina.

Diamond(ME) for both of you coupled with Love Bomb.

Relationship isn’t about all sex, it isn’t about the pops but everything in between that made up all the fun.

[AlexanderGraves]

@SaintSovereign

By withholding release until actual sex, I have found that the sensation itself is far more pleasurable than anything one can do alone.

This.

Yesterday I got a BJ from the wifey and holy lord was it amazing. KB helps a lot with issues so I could also easily last enough and truly immerse myself in the feeling of it and the enjoyment.

I was at a similar position in the past where I thought rubbing one out is just better. But it was all out of fear.
Because for sex you need to open up to the other person. Let yourself go. Overcome issues. Be dominant and tell her what you want, etc.
With rubbing one out, you sit down and nobody judges or watches.

But once you overcome these problems, real sex is a gazillion times better.
Not just for the mindset. Also the sensations.

Like, its not even a comparison for me.

I caught myself recently that after the shower I wanted to rub it, but I was bored. It didnt have the same sensation as if she does it.
If I hear her moan. See her body in ecstacy, or even see her naked and touch her body while she sucks it.

So, its not necessarily porn as @Psiklou said, but still a mindset issue you could overcome.

I keep saying: “There is an easy way, and a right way. Your choice.”

[Sungaze]

@SaintSovereign

Believe it or not, but I do not masturbate — only intercourse.

Same here…

I find it challenging to compare the experiences of partnered sex and masturbation, as they seem fundamentally different to me. In my personal journey, the spectrum of possibilities in partnered sex has been vast, encompassing variations such as fast, slow, loving, primal, penetrative and not, more mental or physical, and… we are not even scarching the surface of the spiritual side of it.

On the other hand, masturbation, for me, often involved passively watching moving pixels on a screen, leading to an almost unconscious climax. Over time, I realized this habit was not only time-consuming (as I sought the perfect scene) but also left me feeling unsatisfied and somewhat empty. I came to the conclusion that fulfilling sex, especially when not solely focused on ejaculation, has a more enriching quality.

Reflecting on this, I believe one of the main reasons for unsatisfactory sexual experiences is that we learn the basics at a young age and often cease further exploration. Moreover, today’s society bombards us with a narrow and unrealistic portrayal of sex through high-speed pornography, where the context of the scenes may change but the way sex is done is always the damn same (fast, hard, no emotion whatsoever, etc…).
What remains? Friction till release lol

I advocate for viewing sex as a dynamic aspect of human expression that can continually evolve and grow, much like any other facet of our lives.

[Sungaze]

@AlexanderGraves

Like, its not even a comparison for me.

that’s what I mean

[RagnarLothbrok]

I keep thinking about having sex with a female co worker, she is older than me but she is hot af

I want to have sex with her more than i want to have sex with my gf

[SaintSovereign]

Honestly, this sounds like relationship issues that are beyond the scope of just running a subliminal. You should consider using Heartsong, however, if you are looking to use one.

HS + PN.

[RagnarLothbrok]

I do love her though and she loves me, I don’t know

Thanks for the stack advice

I also care more about money, power and fighting than relationship that’s why i use Khan + WTP + Spartan and not HS + PN, maybe it’s because im young

[unusualfellow]

You’re young. There’s more fish in the sea than you could ever catch…

Keep focusing on the bigger picture.

Khan’s conquer

Or invite the female co worker over…

[RagnarLothbrok]

@unusualfellow

Or invite the female co worker over…

I don’t want to cheat on her though i love her

[unusualfellow]

Just being devil’s advocate

Having fun

And if gf suggested way to spice things up… well… in life all things ARE possible

[Sungaze]

There’s no need to hurt people… Just take responsibility for your decisions and have integrity as a men

[RagnarLothbrok]

That’s why i don’t want to cheat her, i love her and I don’t want to hurt her

[unusualfellow]

There’s no need to intentionally hurt women. Some will feel hurt regardless of honorable intentions.