I’ve just started WDB, wish me luck lol 
I spent a lot of time pondering and writing out stuff, trying to figure out whether to do WDB or new Wanted. As I posted previously, when I sat down and read through the whole product copy for each title, I read WDB first. Some parts of it kind of turned me off to be honest, and then there were a bunch of critical posts or people questioning how/whether it would work (friend zone etc).
So I wasn’t sure, but at the same time, there were other parts of the script that just sounded so nice, and gave me a feeling of relief, like how good it would feel to have that thing happen.
I can go into details about those things (positive and negative) should anyone wish to hear it, but for now, suffice to say that was my initial reaction.
Whereas when I read the product copy for new Wanted, I remember just looking at almost every single objective/bullet point and thinking stuff along the lines of “wow, this is so enticing and cool!”
The thing is though, I just came to the conclusion that I wasn’t ready for Wanted (in terms of my emotions and current lifestyle), and also that I simply didn’t resonate with the archetype much.
I did think that perhaps it’s an archetype I’d like to grow into.
But after reading all of the posts by @SaintSovereign about WDB, explaining how it worked and reassuring us, WDB started to sound a whole lot more appealing.
And I guess what clinched it for me was simply that I largely resonate very well with the WDB archetype as I am right now, with no need to change much at all.
I love romantic feelings (feeling them myself, and also knowing that someone is feeling them about me) as well as sexual attraction, I’m not really a fan of playing games or treating seduction/dating as such.
I’ve been told (a lot) how intuitive and empathic I am, and people tend to confide in me or open up to me when we talk. I enjoy being the grounded rock for someone I care about, and I am very romantic generally, imaginative and creative and fun.
What I’ve lacked at times in the past has been a strong masculine frame and self-confidence/belief, which - amongst other factors - has led to the dreaded friendzone on various occasions, and I do feel that this is something that WDB should help me to develop.
With new Wanted, I feel like I’d have to make a concerted effort to fit in with the archetype.
With WDB, it’s nice to feel that I don’t need to think about it; just go out and be myself.
It’s a strange thing for me; there have been times when I’ve flat out seduced girls, done push-pull, cocky, negging stuff, but all in a respectful way and with the vibe of us having fun doing that together.
On the other hand, I’ve also just met girls, fallen into deep, long conversations and ended up with them falling for me like that. So I feel I could in some ways do either archetype.
But I feel I resonate much more with the WDB one, and I’m glad that I chose this sub!
