Eh even Jessica Black’s can be attracted to trivial things. I think it does come down to “being yourself”, which means not being insecure, doing what you want, not caring what other people think of you, etc. With that attitude I think any guy can pick up a girl, it’s just a matter of decluttering bullsh*t that society and other sources of limiting/false beliefs that have been imposed on a guy.
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I’m with you on this one, if you’re not yourself, not only do you not deserve any girl, but you also attract ones that don’t fit you. There are soooo many people, SOOO many, be yourself, be the best version, simple as, you’ll attract the right ones.
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Believing in the myth of “just being yourself” is the second thing I consider the most detrimental to self-development and personal growth, next to the abundance mindset.
I’m not talking about fakery but embracing your real self through total honesty to yourself, and striving for becoming the best version of yourself through accepting and working on your “flaws” - the things you need to absolutely work on in order to get to the best version of yourself.
That’s the core of WB, apart from getting Jessica, and that’s exactly the reason I consider WB a spiritual title. Plus connecting with women on the deeper levels.
And “yes” by just being yourself you can get “a girl” but then don’t come back here, complaining about attracting the “wrong” women. I’m not talking about you, mate, of course.
On the other hand we’ve seen a lot of instances where a beautiful woman got attracted to an absolute douchebag. However, think what it says about her psychology. Jessica would never ever go for a guy of that sort.
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I think it’s all about self development and still staying true to yourself… I think the biggest misunderstanding here is that one feels that doing all these things would be more than out of his comfort zone, but completely inauthentic for him, and that would mean lack of self acceptance, while the other sees it as improving on the person you already are.
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WB men’s mindset.
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This part
100%
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Time to hop back on it, ASTB, WB, HS triple stack is coming.
The bottom line is:
NO SUB CAN MAKE OF YOU SOMEONE YOU’RE NOT, ONLY YOU ALONE HAVE THAT IMMENSE POWER
One can’t lie to ZP indeed.
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We are in partial agreement with things, I believe.
Helping you “just be yourself” is the main mechanism of Zero Point. The issue is that most of you don’t know who the hell you even are. We tell people that the potentials that helps Zero Point brings out is already within them, and they refuse to believe it.
The same thing with having an abundance mindset. If you have it, success will inevitably come and it is simply a matter of time and effort.
So, the question with Zero Point is who are you really? You can’t lie to Zero Point. When people come here trying to accuse us of stupid things, this is how we know that you’re only looking at your shadow and trying to project it on to someone else (and why we relentlessly refuse to allow them to do that to us).
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I was reading that and I was like hmmmm. Then took a look at your modules you’ve got right now. Safety Net and You Are Not Alone are shining through big time in this post. Anyway I appreciate it. As someone that’s played that losing game for most of my life I legit thought that’s how it went.
The reason why I’m not a fan of the abundance mindset is that it may keep you in your comfort zone, feeding you illusions like; I don’t need to pounce on that opportunity since there will be more to come, so let’s just keep it cool, saving my energy, staying in my comfort zone, whilst no opportunity presents itself twice, ever. Whilst when you’re focused on the opportunity, carefully considering it and knowing the right timing there’s a much higher probability that the opportunity will lead to success than when you just think; I have plenty options, why bother? Maybe another time? Instead of making the most of what you have and what the opportunity has brought to the table. That’s why I suggested implementing an “opportunist” scripting into each (?) title.
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This is becoming, more and more, my sticking point in life.
Is there a sub, or a tool, or a paradigm, or a resource, or a practice, or SOMETHING, that can help me figure this out?
To me, the most ironic part of it all is that the only absolutely vital prerequisite for confidently loving yourself is:
[drum roll]
confidently loving yourself.
Yup, it’s based on nothing but itself.
Rules and Regs
All the rules that we or anyone make up to ‘justify’ it are just that: empty and made-up.
Not to say that they’re useless or invalid or ‘wrong’ per se. But they’re utterly made up.
A bunch of people decide over some years on the rule to how a group of people should bounce a ball and try to throw it into a net.
Because those rules are taken seriously and stick, millions of people are then able to enjoy watching basketball.
The rules are simultaneously 100% made-up and 100% real.
If you go into the game and break the rules you will be booed out the stadium by the millions of people who now support those rules.
So, they’re real.
On the other hand, you can do the leg work and campaign and gather supporters to play a completely different game. It may take time (40 to 100 years), but eventually you may have a completely different game with a different set of rules.
And those new rules?
Also utterly made-up. Also utterly real.
The misunderstanding people have is that Arbitrary somehow equals Easy.
Not at all.
Standing in your chosen version of Arbitrary, Made-up Bullshit may be the hardest skill that there is. That’s why people are constantly seeking external validation and precedents for points and positions that, at the end of the day, we just made up.
“it’s been done this way for 1000 years!”
(yup. and 1000 years ago, people just made it up.)
“science and empirical data support it!”
(yup, and science and data support about 1000 other alternatives, but this is the made-up option that you prefer.)
“Most people are doing it this way.”
(yup, and with enough time and influence, most people will be doing it another way.)
and on and on.
There is no escape from the reality that we are Creators. Influencing and being Influenced.
Might as well strive to get as close as we can to the Zero Point of creation, and try to get more of a handle on it. Until the current churns us up and spits us out again.
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I think you guy’s have the same point, but just definitions of an abundance mindset.
From my perspective, somebody stuck in scarcity will be too focused on the negative in their life, the not having “enough”, to recognize the opportunities around them, because their R.A.S is looking for more things to confirm their existing belief of lack, or not having, where as the the person who believes in abundance, that their is an infinite supply of wealth and opportunity will readily spot, and act on the opportunities.
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It’s this mindset that leads to the issue, and I’m not even trying to be funny or condescending. The things you listed are merely tools — the knowledge of who you are has to be developed from within through experience and intuition.
But if I must recommend anything, it would be meditation and relaxation. If you are religious, structured scheduled moments of quiet devotion. Moving meditation if it fits you better (like Qigong, which works well for me). Anything in which there is silence and calmness, as it’s in these moments that your subconscious speaks to you.
But be warned, must people’s minds are so conditioned to hide their shadow and project it instead that it can be EXTREMELY difficult to go very deep.
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Yes, this is a valid concern of the abundance mindset, that’s why we include so much action taking. Well stated.
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Total Breakdown has helped me in that regard immensely. I suppose it “happened” due to removing lots of unnecessary, and “artificial” (not resonating with my real self) layers.
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Quite often, it happens that the ability to spot opportunities even in the most mundane situations and pouncing on them with boldness and confidence lead to great results. That’s how I see the general framework of the “opportunist” scripting.
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Yeah I definitely don’t expect the tools to do the work for me, but at the same time, “knowing yourself” is so nebulous and I feel stuck asking HOW?
Cultivate moments of stillness 
Thank you Saint, I appreciate you, as always 
AKA don’t expect instant results, and keep at it, as it might be a slog. Copy that!
That and most people don’t understand what it is or why it’s there