the question now is, how to develop a personality to be charming or, at least, interesting and charismatic person?
Spiritual and status subs. Perhaps the new Love Bomb will be the best answer.
you think so?
I have a few ideas of why, but could you expand your thought?
Iāll gladly do so upon its release.
I only intuit that I may replace Primal with it instead of WB since Iām heavily into connecting with women on the deepest level, and sex is just a step in the whole process, and itās actually dispensable. Iām not looking for a partner (Heart Song) as Iām married, and I really love my wife. I just have a natural and insatiable desire to connect with a robust variety of women. Nothing delights me more than that. Itās about building spiritual communions with women.
Would you say primal does a better job than PS in those deep connection levels?
Would you say primal does a better job than PS in those deep connection levels?
I havenāt run PS yet (?). On Primal, itās about being extremely social, charming, and playful. Having fun with women. Itās an essential sub for embracing a natural and carefree way of socialising with women and sexual escalation.
I seek for something way beyond that. As I described in the post above.
Personally, I donāt think PS would be optimal for that purpose (building spiritual communions with women) as it heavily emphasises the sexual aspect.
Interesting, what you describe is my experience with WB
I may revert to it, ASBR makes me super calm and collected, but I miss the free aspect of WB and the fun I had with girls over PS.
Interesting, what you describe is my experience with WB
Thatās great to hear, thanks.
The whole concept behind it can be expressed in my native tongue (Polish):
Kocham Cie = I love you
and
Kocham sie w Tobie = I love myself in you.
āKocham sie w Tobieā represents the kind of love and communion/connection Iām talking about.
Itās the way we love another human being, and what we give, and what we give up on and let go for that love that reflects our humanity, our deepest self. WE LOSE OURSELVES (EGO) IN LOVE FOR ANOTHER HUMAN BEING, YET WE FIND OURSELVES (WITHOUT EGO) A NEW AT THE SAME TIME. Weāre truly RESURRECTED.
That would be awesome to have in LB or LBfH.
Loving myself in womenā¦is what I seek. Iāve run WB and I felt that is the closest sub, helping fulfil that desire. But even SSX steers me towards it.
In other words, if your personality is rather dull
This is pretty subjective.
Like describing a book, movie, or song as ādullā.
To whom?
The āaverage personā?
Why is that the target?
Opinion:
The point is to reach YOUR āOptimal Zoneā: that place where life feels right, stimulating, rich, meaningful FOR YOU.
And then, to find people who enjoy being in the same or a similar optimal zone.
If youāre winning in a game that is the preference of someone else, not youā¦if youāre winning (in other words) in somebody elseās game, then as far as Iām concerned, thatās a loss.
So, itās important to know: āWhich game is MY game?ā
The capacity to even ask that question is amazing.
The capacity to properly answer it is, in my opinion, the true meaning of Inner Strength.
That is still my aspiration.
Lol I was gonna say that as well, one girl may perceive a guy as ādullā while another thinks heās hot 
This is pretty subjective.
Like describing a book, movie, or song as ādullā.
To whom?
The āaverage personā?
Why is that the target?
I donāt see any subjectivity in being socially inept and anti-seductive, disenchanting. Yet I need to concur that in every social setting, and every person has different requirements in that regard. However, high-quality women, the ultimate goal of WB (Jessica Black) all along, have high and distinguished requirements in that regard.
Later on, you hear lots of complaints about attracting the"wrong" women, and here you go.
You MUST have a āvibrantā persona to attract vibrant women or rely on crafting an outstanding experience (PS).
Okay, look at it this way.
I see a āfastā bicycle, a āfastā car, and a āfastā airplane.
They are all objectively displaying the same quality: fastness.
So:
How fast are they going?
It depends on which fastness is the most suitable for my circumstances. If I want to get from Paris to Tokyo, the plane is my choice, the bikeās and the carās fastness wouldnāt be enough, or it would be simply unreasonable to rely on them, having the plane at my disposal. However, if I want to get back home from work, I would go with the bike and cycle through the park, enjoying its beauty. I wouldnāt even consider the plane.
However, Jessica Black, as a worldly woman, goes by plane, the first class, on top of that. Perhaps, you could still encounter her in the park, when going back home by bike but thatās realy unlikely. Especially if you suck at even as rudimentary a thing as saying āhelloā, cracking a pirateās smile, let alone leading her through the intricacies of your persona, that is that of the average Joeās, who can only dream of flying the first class, let alone getting Jessica chase after him, and dying to see him again.
Eh even Jessica Blackās can be attracted to trivial things. I think it does come down to ābeing yourselfā, which means not being insecure, doing what you want, not caring what other people think of you, etc. With that attitude I think any guy can pick up a girl, itās just a matter of decluttering bullsh*t that society and other sources of limiting/false beliefs that have been imposed on a guy.
Iām with you on this one, if youāre not yourself, not only do you not deserve any girl, but you also attract ones that donāt fit you. There are soooo many people, SOOO many, be yourself, be the best version, simple as, youāll attract the right ones.
Believing in the myth of ājust being yourselfā is the second thing I consider the most detrimental to self-development and personal growth, next to the abundance mindset.
Iām not talking about fakery but embracing your real self through total honesty to yourself, and striving for becoming the best version of yourself through accepting and working on your āflawsā - the things you need to absolutely work on in order to get to the best version of yourself.
Thatās the core of WB, apart from getting Jessica, and thatās exactly the reason I consider WB a spiritual title. Plus connecting with women on the deeper levels.
And āyesā by just being yourself you can get āa girlā but then donāt come back here, complaining about attracting the āwrongā women. Iām not talking about you, mate, of course.
On the other hand weāve seen a lot of instances where a beautiful woman got attracted to an absolute douchebag. However, think what it says about her psychology. Jessica would never ever go for a guy of that sort.
I think itās all about self development and still staying true to yourself⦠I think the biggest misunderstanding here is that one feels that doing all these things would be more than out of his comfort zone, but completely inauthentic for him, and that would mean lack of self acceptance, while the other sees it as improving on the person you already are.
I think itās all about self development and still staying true to yourself⦠I think the biggest misunderstanding here is that one feels that doing all these things would be more than out of his comfort zone, but completely inauthentic for him, and that would mean lack of self acceptance, while the other sees it as improving on the person you already are.
WB menās mindset.
becoming the best version of yourself
This part
100%
Time to hop back on it, ASTB, WB, HS triple stack is coming.