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#662

Full on with the tongue, we both were drunk, I think I almost fucked her with clothes on while kissing her lmao.

I feel shame because everyone from work saw this, also I feel shame because I think she is not on my level.

If it was just a regular kiss it would have been less shameful but it was very sexual and intense and I don’t want people to me like this, should happen only in private.

But I also don’t real care, it’s weird that I both don’t care and feel shame, I also feel disgusted that I kissed her because I don’t find her attractive at all.

Also day after that happened I seem to be much more social, relaxed, confident, authentic etc at work, maybe the healing effect from being with a female on Wanted.

Edit: I think it’s was a good transformative experience, will keep using Wanted.

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#663

Apparently that’s a big thing in the US :thinking: like it’s a massive taboo (and a sackable offence). Maybe that’s where the shame is coming from?

I’m in the UK and work in a professional setting where I know of at least two colleagues who not only have had sex, but also live together and have children. Is it awkward? Maybe when there’s a power imbalance between colleagues, but I guess we’re trusted to remain professional (plus people aren’t stupid).

So, maybe what “society” says and what humans do naturally don’t always line up. I personally don’t align with the “don’t shit where you eat” edict (Hunter Hearst Helmsley is in trouble :sweat_smile:). Also sex is sex - if you don’t like the person you bumped hips with, then just chalk it up to a learning experience. Would you care who gave you a fat stack of dollar bills?

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#664

Actually in my country it’s not taboo, it’s ok if you work in an office and even more acceptable in my job, I work as a waiter in a restaurant and most of the waiters are between the ages of 20-26 so it’s even kind of encourage, there are many couples in the restaurant.

I just feel shame because of how intense and sexual the kiss was and how public it was, also I feel shame because the girl is below my standards and usually I date more beautiful girls.

I also made her understand that we were just both drunk and nothing will be between us, I think she would like it to be but I’m not interested.

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#665

Did your female coworker initiate and just go wild?

Yes, I think it’s a bit absurd here how something so natural is stigmatized. Many times, it’s frowned upon and in the worst scenario grounds for discipline or dismissal. The problem usually happens at management level.

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#666

I think we just danced together and we got closer and closer mutually and I kissed her and we both went wild.

I think, I drank so much I barley remember.

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#667

Energetically you may be a real match, or she may genuinely be attracted to you.

#668

She is attracted to me I’m just not attracted to her

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#669

Lol I felt the same kind of shame when I would kiss my first gf in high school in front of people. Since then, I try not to PDA (public display of affection), like every girl since then I do nothing in public with except hug maybe.

#670

Sounds like the sexual shame you mentioned earlier in the thread bro

If she’s already yours, why feel scared of showing her love, affection, and desire? Even in public

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#671

Well my first gf cheated on me and I feel my friend group broke up a little with her being there (she didn’t cheat with my friends, but maybe I gave her more attention than my friends and that was out of character for me, hard to explain), and maybe I associate PDA’ing with that now. But yeah maybe also sexual shame. There might also be a macho thing, like a “cool man” doesn’t melt and make out with a girl in public know what I mean?

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#672

what archetype would New Wanted + Khan black + ROTNW generate.

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#673

Assortment of notes and reflections from a busy Birthday celebration. More to add once I’ve had some progressing time:

  • Took a half day off work to celebrate my birthday with friends.

  • Spent the afternoon cuddling up with a couple friends at sex club/ nude spa. A third woman hovered around our group for a while, but faded out of notice. This could be GLM’s influence at play. Although I’m aware of the IOI’s around me, I don’t ‘actively’ notice them. I know what I want, and anything else is a shiny distraction.

  • After dinner, I brought one back for a solo session. We hadn’t slept together in over a year, but you wouldn’t have noticed by how easily we settled into old patterns. I credit GLM with keeping me grounded and engaged. Recommending it for rounding out sexual healing stacks.

  • The main event was a kink event at a local bar (no play, just drinks and conversation). I thrive in social settings, especially with this crowd where I’m a regular, but I’ve never had such an easier time connecting with people. People radiated when we spoke, and I matched their vibes. A shy friend even greeted me with a big hug and an adorable rendition of ‘happy birthday’. That got us some looks lol.

  • Night ended in a uber ride home with my latest crush. She asked to hold hands, and when my guard was down, she pounced: grabbed my collar and started kissing.

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#674

If she is my gf I don’t care I kissed my exes in work and in front of people and they would sit on me it’s ok, but just random girls or FWB I don’t like when it’s public.

Also I think I just want people to see me with beautiful girls so if they see me with a less attractive girl I can feel shame, I think it’s a status thing but I’m not sure when it’s coming from, maybe insecurity.

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#675

Very sexual

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#677

Name embedded makes all the difference - whilst results were starting to build cycle by cycle on store bought, NE accelerated this. Only this week I have women deliberately changing seats, standing face to face, body to body, rivalry factions cut-eyeing each other and even an approach. You’ll feel good about yourself and your style too. :wink:

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#678

Wanted continues to impress

  • Walked up to a new girl at the event on Wednesday, complimented her braids, and walked off into the crowd. It wasn’t a line or an opening, I just enjoy paying compliments and her braids were magnificent.

  • I must’ve made one hell of an impression cause she’s sending me DMs at 3 am this morning. Apparently, she heard how well-respected and liked I was in the community and had to properly introduce herself.

  • After text for a couple hours, I get invited to a private swingers’ server she runs.

Interesting developments

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#679

This sub reminds me of the original CfW

#680

How so?

It’s made me much more introspective so in that sense I feel you

#681

Its like a complete acceptance of self, like a love bomb from within feeling the original cfw gave.

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#682

Does anyone ever ask themselves

“Why doesn’t she want me?”

Is the answer even useful to know

Or is the move to not give a fuck and shift focus to someone who does

Also, is it ever worth trying to get someone who doesn’t want us to want us?

Or is it inauthentic to try to fit into the box of who they want

Really what I want to know the most - how the fuck do I find hot religious girls who want to fuck and who I can wife up if they are sweet enough to make me fall in love?

Not girls who will fuck anyone and therefore are down, but who crave me so deeply that they know they want me above anyone else and therefore “waiting” becomes irrelevant and they can backwards rationalize getting physical quickly because we are gonna get married and start a family anyway right?

I think Wanted is helping me realize that a huge turn on for me, and what I want in a woman, is for her to worship me like I am her sun god

My ex did that once, a quick little “I worship you, I’m the head priestess of your cock” role play, and it turned me on like nothing ever had before

Lots of self knowing coming from Wanted

Or maybe it’s Hero Fire and Wanted being in the same stack

I love this sub

Edit - original post said “I think Wanted is helping me realize that a huge turn on for me, and what I want in a woman, is for me to worship me like I am her sun god” — Freudian slip that I really just need self love? Who knows

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