I usually skip that question and go right into thinking “hmm maybe I came off as weird or she’s having a bad day etc.” and I know attraction can be created. If I put sincere effort into creating attraction and it just isn’t happening, I just figure we’re not right for each other for whatever reason. That’s just me. With New Wanted I feel I at least create some intrigue even if the girl isn’t totally attracted/aroused by me initially.
I would say if you feel genuinely attracted to her enough, then sure, but if you’re really feeling no connection despite some effort, then maybe move on.
Honestly I think very few women are actually like this, if they want to fuck you it’s because they like you.
Anyway, just some of my thoughts.
Tying this back to New Wanted, there seems to lots of good, solidifying, internal work (like I feel more chill, grounded, and stable) and as I said before, it seems women are at least intrigued by me even if they’re not totally attracted/aroused right off the bat.
You’re already setting yourself up for a disadvantage here. I’m not sure which religion in particular you would prefer these women to follow, but if we are talking about the Abrahamic religions, those doctrines tend to have hard controls against open sexual expression, with an emphasis on abstinence until marriage, or at least only within long-term relationships.
If you were to find women that fit your stated preference, those women would not be following the basic tenets of their chosen religion and thus the preference isn’t being met at all. In this situation, it doesn’t quite make any sense to have this preference at all because there are plenty of women out there who do not subscribe to these ideas and are very open with their sexual expression.
But, I’m sure we all can easily see this, which makes me think that the subtext to this request is actually: “How do I meet and sleep with virgins?”
And everyone, I hope we’re not back on this sleeping with virgins thing, which we explicitly asked for everyone to stop doing.
With WB I got strong results but was frequently tired and/or in recon. New Wanted definitely feels smoother. Probably should’ve ran shorter loops.
You may seem more approachable/friendly with New Wanted, but there may be more going on underneath the surface of women you’re interacting with. Food for thought.
Ah, but I never said it’s worse - just different results. Never recon with WB, and adding SPS Endocryne made wonders to remove the tiredness when running WB.
Most of the time I did run it in a custom with KB4 - just amplified even more WB.
Believe me that wasn’t the subtext lol, I’ve spoken out against that type of narrative being spun here as well, earlier in this very thread.
Virginity doesn’t matter in the slightest and I’d be a hypocrite to require that from a woman since I am not a virgin myself.
I was def experiencing recon when I posted that earlier comment, it was all stream of consciousness as I anguished over feeling so far away from my goal of having a beautiful loving wife and a family.
However, for clarity’s sake, what does matter to me is alignment in beliefs and values. I value kindness, charity, faith, hope, discipline, persistence, etc. And those are all qualities I’ve slowly started to pick up thanks to my interaction with my religion (I am Christian).
I guess the real subtext, and the proper phrasing of my question, is — how do I find women whose values and beliefs align with mine?
My original comment was almost completely rhetorical and mostly venting, but this time I’m actually curious. Anyone who’s succeeded in finding women who vibe on that level, where were they?
All the time. They’re in the spaces where I want to be and that align with my interests. It’s easier to ‘find your people’ when you’re in the right place.
Take a page from inner circle and go to place where those women would naturally vibe:
Wanna meet religious women? Go to church picnics and fund raisers
Wanna meet women with artistic passion? Go to art galleries and poetry readings
Wanna meet athletic, active women? Go to gyms and sports clubs.
Find you vibe and go to the places where women with those vibes would thrive.
That happens to be my passion too, so when I spotted a flame haired woman who is also intensely into art in my class (were both students in this case), I had to use Wanted to it’s full effect for her. Spontaneously she now has a nickname I created, Chicken Feet and she lit up.
One of my office colleagues is a cute girl, she works in the floor above me, but she usually comes down to ask me random questions about CAD design.
Today she asked me to check a pipe cad model. she said its like a big snake with an obvious smile. I said let’s check how good of a snake tamer you are? She couldn’t stop blushing. (Context is kinda lost because I didn’t translate it very well. )
I was just so chill and nonchalant about it.
Another office colleague bought me violet tea, and told me all about her past and said she is looking for a fwb. Wanted is quite fun.
I was just playful with both of them, I didn’t say yes or no just having fun in the moment.
I make it a point to not have that kinda fun where I work. So I’ll just continue flirting with them like usual.
Since running this title I have noticed that my eyebrows have gotten thicker and a bit darker. I have always had thin eyebrows so this is a pretty nice result. I also trimmed my beard down today and realized on how young I look for being 31. Also even really starting to believe that I am genuinely an attractive person
got new clothes. new style, thanks to my sister. will be adding even more when I go shopping again.
easier to push n pull… i spark desire without trying.
eyeballs, they track my moves even when I’m dressed to chill indoors. one woman today was walking with her boyfriend and dude was way better dressed than me, taller even with a fresher haircut… however her woman kept checking me out.
another instance while i was at the bank getting my card upgraded, one of the banker was giving me those looks and she’s gorgeous… wouldn’t mind dating her despite her being older than me.
easier to get women into polygamy even thou I’m currently locked in on my grind.
i find myself staring in the mirror, damn I’m handsome.
now I’m into cold showers.
women messaging me out of the blue, one of them rejected me but now she’s intrigued… will add her to my roster soon.