Y’all talking about the female gazes?
I held a 10 second gaze with one Desi woman on the train, it felt so invasive, naked, exposed and quietly powerful. We left the train at the same time, she “thanked me” by walking past and giving an obvious hair flip.
They are so special, the short gazes that become longer and longer until the most intimate, intense eye contact lands so softly and intensely. It’s like sex across the room with your clothes on.
That’s exactly what it feels like, and I don’t know why that feels so terrifying to me
Fear of intimacy? Fear of feminine energy? Fear of being sexually attractive and perceived as such?
Some ideas.
I have the same fear, I think it’s sexual shame for me. Also fear of someone really seeing me and not liking it, fear of rejection maybe.
My tests are in a stack so take this with a grain of salt, but I have to agree.
Wanted is fantastic for internal state, proximity, lightness, but it definitely has less of that sexual edge/interest- so far in my experience. I can see this shifting or ‘hitting’ better in a light stack
My first day insane results were with Khan Stage 2 -they complimented each other perfectly. And WB is much more sexual. The attraction I get from Wanted is endearing, open, lighter; there are some movie moments with it, too. It is playful and flirty, and also easier to make physical/sexual. I think part of it is I don’t feel as sexual as on Khan or WB, states are reflective, anything that has one feel more sexual on Wanted, makes is easier to have that reflected in women. That’s why in the right enviroments and stack with sexual subs it is very adaptable.
Are you back on Wanted? @RagnarLothbrok
Happened to me too, i looked away because i was scared shed say ‘what are you looking at’
I get stared at by men for other reasons, so I’m used to it.
Women tend to look away first, then build up to longer and longer eye tennis matches. Or in one case, a married woman who never noticed me got up from her table and locked eyes with me for as long as a deep breath takes. The look of "how dare you be that guy and not mine?"
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Yep it’s both of these for me
Thanks for helping bring that to light dude
Sexual shame, like I shouldn’t openly be expressing sexual desire or embodying it, as that is “sinful” (thanks Catholicism)
And fear of rejection, because what if I put myself out there and they don’t want me. What does that mean about my sexual value as a man? These are unconscious thoughts, obviously. It comes from a need for external validation.
Interesting how strongly this is coming up, I suspect it is Wanted and GLM working together to help me deal with that fear and need, and shift to internal validation and self love
I was wondering if there are more foundational titles that deal with such issues about sexuality. Only one I can think of is Khan or Khan Black.
Yeah religious conditioning has been embedded deeply in a vast amount of people, even if one has never been anywhere close to religion and has nothing to do with it.
I found RotNW very strong for pure sexual confidence.
So a perfect stack for this could be Wanted + KB St1 + RotNW
Stacking The New GLM with any seduction title might help. It really gives you this I don’t care what anyone thinks, I’m gonna do what I want to do attitude.
Primal but I’d also say the sexual titles like PN and RotNW
Primal for me did as it says and releases the chains
I ran PN for 4 odd months and it permanently increased my overall confidence in regards to sex. Also, got rid of a lot of insecurities as well