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#644

My tests are in a stack so take this with a grain of salt, but I have to agree.
Wanted is fantastic for internal state, proximity, lightness, but it definitely has less of that sexual edge/interest- so far in my experience. I can see this shifting or ‘hitting’ better in a light stack

My first day insane results were with Khan Stage 2 -they complimented each other perfectly. And WB is much more sexual. The attraction I get from Wanted is endearing, open, lighter; there are some movie moments with it, too. It is playful and flirty, and also easier to make physical/sexual. I think part of it is I don’t feel as sexual as on Khan or WB, states are reflective, anything that has one feel more sexual on Wanted, makes is easier to have that reflected in women. That’s why in the right enviroments and stack with sexual subs it is very adaptable.

Are you back on Wanted? @RagnarLothbrok

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#645

Happened to me too, i looked away because i was scared shed say ‘what are you looking at’

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#646

I get stared at by men for other reasons, so I’m used to it.
Women tend to look away first, then build up to longer and longer eye tennis matches. Or in one case, a married woman who never noticed me got up from her table and locked eyes with me for as long as a deep breath takes. The look of "how dare you be that guy and not mine?"

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#647

Yes

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#648

Yep it’s both of these for me

Thanks for helping bring that to light dude

Sexual shame, like I shouldn’t openly be expressing sexual desire or embodying it, as that is “sinful” (thanks Catholicism)

And fear of rejection, because what if I put myself out there and they don’t want me. What does that mean about my sexual value as a man? These are unconscious thoughts, obviously. It comes from a need for external validation.

Interesting how strongly this is coming up, I suspect it is Wanted and GLM working together to help me deal with that fear and need, and shift to internal validation and self love

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#649

I was wondering if there are more foundational titles that deal with such issues about sexuality. Only one I can think of is Khan or Khan Black.

#650

Yeah religious conditioning has been embedded deeply in a vast amount of people, even if one has never been anywhere close to religion and has nothing to do with it.

I found RotNW very strong for pure sexual confidence.

So a perfect stack for this could be Wanted + KB St1 + RotNW

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#651

Stacking The New GLM with any seduction title might help. It really gives you this I don’t care what anyone thinks, I’m gonna do what I want to do attitude.

#652

Primal but I’d also say the sexual titles like PN and RotNW

Primal for me did as it says and releases the chains

I ran PN for 4 odd months and it permanently increased my overall confidence in regards to sex. Also, got rid of a lot of insecurities as well

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#654

What PN results did you get in the bedroom as it’s more so for sex etc

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#655

umm…quite a lot now that I think about it. I’m pretty sure I got a lot of healing from it in terms of whether I’m good enough performance wise, penis size etc.

It also really altered my style of having sex, from a tender loving way to a much much rougher and faster style. Think hardcore pounding after plenty of foreplay

Sex was almost bdsm like, more toys were involved (paddles, straps to the bed, butt plugs), orgasms were stronger for her. More kinks were explored (hardcore spanking etc). Probably would have ventured into threesomes if I was still with her

I’m pretty sure PN was pushing me to learn sex techniques at the time as well from videos and courses. So, I was continually learning for a while. Probably would have ventured into tantra if I continued with it

Her orgasms started getting so strong that she would keep asking how I’d do the things I was doing. She would mention a lot that they were the best orgasms of her life. I was able to start chaining them together as well one after the other

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#657

So yesterday I was at a party and I kissed a co worker.

Now I kind of don’t want to run Wanted anymore, why do I even want sexual attraction? Why do I even want attention from ladies?

I just feel shame now.

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#658

Full on the lips? Were both parties drunk?
You say you feel shame, for the act happening or self shame? Why do you want sexual attraction? Only you know that answer to that one.

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#659

Hey man it’s OK and it happens to me too after I have a sexual encounter with a woman, particularly if it’s my co worker or a friend or basically a girl I’ve known for some time and sex happened all of a sudden.

I still don’t quite get why I feel shame about it but just letting you know you’re not alone in this and you don’t have to stop WANTED. Try to understand why you feel shame about it - that’s what I’m trying to do as well

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#660

Interesting, I haven’t done any sex yet so I have nothing to “feel shame” over, maybe that’s why I unconsciously sabotage myself, fear of feeling shame?… but then I feel jealous and fear that I’m wasting my youth etc. fuck lol.

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#661

I think the shame is essentially stepping from breaking your own inner rule as in I am a professional person, I don’t have sex around where I work or if she is a friend you may feel you have crossed the boundary as a friend.

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#662

Full on with the tongue, we both were drunk, I think I almost fucked her with clothes on while kissing her lmao.

I feel shame because everyone from work saw this, also I feel shame because I think she is not on my level.

If it was just a regular kiss it would have been less shameful but it was very sexual and intense and I don’t want people to me like this, should happen only in private.

But I also don’t real care, it’s weird that I both don’t care and feel shame, I also feel disgusted that I kissed her because I don’t find her attractive at all.

Also day after that happened I seem to be much more social, relaxed, confident, authentic etc at work, maybe the healing effect from being with a female on Wanted.

Edit: I think it’s was a good transformative experience, will keep using Wanted.

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#663

Apparently that’s a big thing in the US :thinking: like it’s a massive taboo (and a sackable offence). Maybe that’s where the shame is coming from?

I’m in the UK and work in a professional setting where I know of at least two colleagues who not only have had sex, but also live together and have children. Is it awkward? Maybe when there’s a power imbalance between colleagues, but I guess we’re trusted to remain professional (plus people aren’t stupid).

So, maybe what “society” says and what humans do naturally don’t always line up. I personally don’t align with the “don’t shit where you eat” edict (Hunter Hearst Helmsley is in trouble :sweat_smile:). Also sex is sex - if you don’t like the person you bumped hips with, then just chalk it up to a learning experience. Would you care who gave you a fat stack of dollar bills?

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#664

Actually in my country it’s not taboo, it’s ok if you work in an office and even more acceptable in my job, I work as a waiter in a restaurant and most of the waiters are between the ages of 20-26 so it’s even kind of encourage, there are many couples in the restaurant.

I just feel shame because of how intense and sexual the kiss was and how public it was, also I feel shame because the girl is below my standards and usually I date more beautiful girls.

I also made her understand that we were just both drunk and nothing will be between us, I think she would like it to be but I’m not interested.

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#665

Did your female coworker initiate and just go wild?

Yes, I think it’s a bit absurd here how something so natural is stigmatized. Many times, it’s frowned upon and in the worst scenario grounds for discipline or dismissal. The problem usually happens at management level.

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