This is worth re reading, especially for new users
30s to 1m. I feel safe on 30s(same for GLM concurrently) because that’s where I get in that perfect zone where I get shown everything I need to work on and maintain the necessary stability to actually go through with it. Experimenting going up to 1m recently, but just got out of a 2 day long recon phase that hit surprisingly hard. Nevertheless, the recon is not terrible to the point that I can’t see exactly what specific issues I need to work on to progress, so it’s all good.
Although I should mention that I am highly sensitive to subs, and can get headache like symptoms for short bursts a few hours after just running 30-40s. They really pack a powerful punch.
The exact reason why I’m sticking to 45 seconds at the moment
Stack is GLM/HeroWater custom, Wanted/HeroEarth custom, and Hero Fire.
The notion that you HAVE to sit in the corner and brood like Edward Cullen to be chased and “wanted” is untrue
That’s probably where I’m going wrong, not the brooding part, but the staying put and observing stance. Still trying to calibrate the level of engagement that fits my style (I’m no party guy).
Full loops, which can bring on mild recon and can tire me out sometimes, but I can handle it.
This is crazy Manifestation from Wanted
It has nothing to do with women.
Since nearly 4 months I live in the Ticino Region (the Italian part of Switzerland).
I play Foosball in the league, every Kanton in Switzerland has a official Fossball club where members meet and train together except Ticino.
I had called the boss of the Fossball association in Ticino with nearly no results, the guy didn’t even want to tell me where they play in the beginning 2 months I had written him. Then he gave me one location where people play.
So I searched myself in the internet and found local newspaper article in Italian, and found a couple of locations where they play.
Its always a bar and sometimes 3 hours with the train.
So I checked out a couple of these locations and Everytime I asked the people who work in these Bars if they could tell me from Monday to Sunday which day is the day the players are here.
No real answer, they always said: sometimes Saturday but I don’t know.
Ufff what a joke.
Then I have found a bar (3 hours away) where they don’t charge money for the table and started to go there a month ago.
First couple of times I trained alone and then 2 weeks ago a group of people came in and we played. The one guy was B-A league level for sure.
Next time I saw this guy again hanging out and drinking. I asked if he would like to play so we played.
3 times we played since then.
Today I was going again and he was there. We played again and then suddenly he ask me how long I play this game I told him 4 years.
He was impressed and asked if I play in the league, I nooded and asked him if there is a league in Ticino. He told me that in Ticino it’s a little bit different than in the other regions.
Here the team has 6 members and it’s more of a Bar vs Bar system than 2 vs 2.
So I told him my situation that I moved to Ticino 4 months ago and I want to play in the League again but I know nobody and that the lack of a regular location where I can meet everyone makes it nearly impossible to find a partner but now where are in Ticino and I need 5 without speaking Italian makes it even worse.
He turned shouted 2 minutes with a couple of people and turned towards me and said : for the actual season the registration phase is over but the next season which starts in February is open, he didn’t decided yet, with whom he wants to play but I am invited to play the next season with him in his team.
I had always in a new city a maximum time span of 2 weeks until I found new friends because of Foosball until I came to Ticino but now this is turning in my favor.
The most funny thing was that the whole conversation was translated from another guy who speak German and Italian.
It was super funny
Did the first loop of Wanted 4 days ago
Thank you Subliminalclub
1 minute, but only very recently (was 30 seconds).
I am switching between 60 seconds and 90 seconds, sometimes trying 120 seconds.
Yes now I’m in the preparation phase, running Earth to prepare my body for New Muay Thai Mastery and running Wanted to prepare for New Wanted Black.
Im at 3m for wanted glm and EE. By following the new micro Loop, instructions and steadily increasing i’m able to handle it.
Ive become quite playful with everyone on wanted.
I get into staring contests with random women on the street, it’s so much fun
I’m excited for when I move to 3m. I’ve been at 1m for almost two weeks; I had tried 3m one day and it overloaded me. I’m planning to move to 3m this coming Sunday with GLM + WANTED + IC.
I’ve noticed this the most about running Wanted. Right from the get-go.
Not that, though.
The staring contest just happened randomly I was in a bus and just happened to look at a woman and we both saw each other at the same time.
We held like a 5 second gaze and then she looked away, i was just chill.
The next time I intentionally looked at a girl and we both held an intense gaze for a while. It just felt good, like a vote of confidence.
Yeah, I had a couple of those so far, but it’s nothing regular yet. It is an improvement over the standard frowns here, though!
I still struggle with this
I look away first, usually almost instantly
The eye contact feels so intimate
I have a “gf” (on/off exclusive FWB) and it feels like cheating almost
Super weird, definitely some emotional baggage stuff going on, not sure how to define it yet
The quickest way to get rid of it, is to get into a staring contest with a male friend, then once you’re comfortable with it, try it with a female friend. Just tell them you heard it makes your friendship closer or you saw someone do it on TikTok,
Eventually, make it random people.
I always used to turn away, when people stared into my eyes as well. But the new wanted Just let me have fun with it, so I’m sure it will happen to you as well
If anything, either GLM or Wanted has made it really easy for me to relax my gaze when looking at people. Don’t feel uncomfortable or too intense when people meet my gaze, and really enjoy getting pulled into it.
EDIT: To add to what Evolver said, you can also use staring contest videos people upload on youtube as training wheels. There are people that just stare into their camera and upload that sort of stuff.
Y’all talking about the female gazes?
I held a 10 second gaze with one Desi woman on the train, it felt so invasive, naked, exposed and quietly powerful. We left the train at the same time, she “thanked me” by walking past and giving an obvious hair flip.
They are so special, the short gazes that become longer and longer until the most intimate, intense eye contact lands so softly and intensely. It’s like sex across the room with your clothes on.
That’s exactly what it feels like, and I don’t know why that feels so terrifying to me
Fear of intimacy? Fear of feminine energy? Fear of being sexually attractive and perceived as such?
Some ideas.
I have the same fear, I think it’s sexual shame for me. Also fear of someone really seeing me and not liking it, fear of rejection maybe.