Free will. Free will.
Consider both words.
If you have to utilize means to convince/persuade/manipulate/coerce/force someone to do someone they aren’t/won’t consciously do of their own accord, that seems like a free-will violation.
Let’s say your words are magic. Let’s say this is a magical universe and anything is possible.
You see this magical being and you want her/him. This magical being lets you know that your magic and theirs together don’t do it for them.
You decide, “I’ll affirm that this magical being wants me, and by my magic, it will be!”
So, you affirm, “This magical being is obsessed with me.”
Violation.
Make sense?
Let’s say baby girl/boy has a love interest of their own that isn’t you. You affirm their interest in you. Is that not violating their ability to make a FREE will choice?
Consider that and other lenses.
The thing about free will is that it was given to us for a purpose.
I, for one, was not put on this planet to worship a man, woman, child or thing.
So, if someone out there were affirming me worshipping them in any way, then I’d consider my free will violated, if I found out (and, I’ve been there).
How about considering what you said earlier? The universe being you pushed out. If SP is not receptive to YOU, then YOU are not receptive to YOU.
The whole specific person manifestation schtick is a slippery, slippery slope.