Yeah that is what puts me off non mono, sharing your partner with other guys. Like, what is the point?
Yeah in an ideal world, I can have multiple partners, but my partner cannot. But even saying that seems people would say that is not fair etc. Maybe even go into the whole not being secure enough to “share” your partner etc.
My question in my previous post was more coming from a place of being in a committed monogamous relationship with a woman I love, but having the wondering eye. How would Heartsong know what is real and not real?
As I know with the right belief system of being loyal, faithful, committed and with the right healthy beliefs directed at only supporting and uplifting the relationship, my experience might be very different and the wondering eye is just a sympton of some faulty belifes about the grass always being greener on the other side etc.