Absolutely!
That’s the whole point — both of these forces become toxic when improperly balanced.
Imagine for a moment, a mother who feels so deeply for her children that she is excessively calling, stalking them, checking on them, etc because she is scared and afraid that something will happen to them.
Just because of HER fears, doubts, worries, especially worries.
If she had balanced her masculine traits this would not happen.
In fact it is what traumatises a child in a way because she deteriorates that child’s masculinity, and ability to grow up and become independent.
How can a boy become a man if he is constantly relying upon the protection of her mother, never being free to do as he pleases because the mother is not MASCULINE and knows not how to show the boy to live as a Man and emulate her.
This is the same principle.
It is toxic.
You don’t know those “mother children” especially man. They are passive, feminine, never taking risks, etc
And they feel the needs to comply with their mothers “worries” because otherwise she will “feel” bad. This is wrong, and very toxic and manipulating on the mothers end. Whereas with man it would be more controlling, through sheer will and domination, with toxic femininity it is manipulation through emotions.
And the worst of all is when a Man (body) and Female (body) gets their forces twisted around — the best example of this would be a man who is feminine in his energies, being abused and controlled by a woman who is masculine in her energies.
A very masculine woman would need to find a even more masculine man to get attracted (this is just magnetism— it’s science) or she has to balance her forces and connect more with her feminine side.
In a relationship when both persons are properly balanced they will harmonise perfectly.
