Those are some badass healing stories and overcomings
I have during the last year or two attracted random people, usually at bars, that are bipolar and and have ADHD or similar. I tend to attract these people like a magnet, and I often hear from them that they feel heard and that I listen to them without judging them negatively for it.
When applying this pattern to my old friends from old times, I now realize that many had the same problems, but back then I was uneducated of it and did not ponder about it, but had to endure a lot of drama from these people.
Another thing that happens lately when I delve into deep talk with these people I meet, I always end up in encouraging them of not accepting it as permanent, for I believe just as you, that if you solve old traumas most things will clear. So really amazing to hear your story and what you have been able to resolve.