I don’t want everyone to be an MMA fighter, that would be insane lol.
It’s an analogy for why I come here with a different energy.
Another analogy is going to the gym.
You don’t go to the gym to do nothing, you go there because you have a mission.
Everyone is here for the same reason - they want to grow and reach their goals.
If your goal is to make a comfortable living and have a chill wife, it’s still a goal that you’re striving towards and focusing energy on.
Of course everyone has different interests.
My thing is not with accomplishments, interests, personal preferences, personality types etc.
It has nothing to do with that. I understand that everyone is MASSIVELY different.
My whole thing is universal and applies to everyone. I’m solely talking about ENERGY.
My issue is one thing and one thing only - stagnation energy.
The opposite of that being forward, growth energy.
Like getting the ball moving, taking action towards what YOU want, being pro-active, being unrestrained by fear in how you create. The journey may be different, the goal may be different but the energy is still there - is it not? The energy is what brings us together.
I’m not a fan of Tate, but I appreciate what he teaches men about positive masculinity and in how he motivates them.
I actually don’t believe in things like status or being on top of the world. I believe in happiness, high vibration and being the best version of yourself, HOWEVER. Being all of that means being HEALED - that includes one’s MASCULINITY.
Every man has that inner hunter drive within them, every man is on the hunt for something. This is figurative language, I’m talking about an energy that propels. An energy that COMPELS to move FORWARD. Whatever one chooses to channel that into is none of my business, but it has to exist there. If enough of that isn’t there, that’s not a personality type that’s just unhealthy and a result of being damaged. People do a lot of lawyering to try to defend themselves which I guarantee you they’re doing now as they read this, like making things sounds extreme “oh no, no, no that’s not for me” AS IF it’s a fucking preference lol.
It’s not a preference, it’s part of being a HEALTHY man. It’s part of being alive and having life force. It’s the most basic shit ever but people make excuses for it and do all this reframing, contexty gymnastic bullshit just to get themselves out of developing HEALTHY masculinity. That’s the epitome of madness and just another reminder of the lengths our minds go to in order to keep us safe and in our little stagnated comfort zone bubbles.
I’m not telling people to “push hard” I’m telling them to have clarity and focus in what they want. To be unstagnated in getting what they want and to have that forward mindset growth energy. I don’t give a shit what they want to do, I support them in anything unless it’s unhealthy.
I agree with everything you said in your post though, you’re right about everything, well said lol