How to stop entering the FRIEND-ZONE

The Emperor's Lounge
#63

To break free from the friend zone, you’ve got to amp up your game and show your true self. Boost your confidence, learn the ropes of relationship dynamics, and embrace your desires without holding back. It’s all about being bold, confident, and unapologetically you.

Don’t be afraid to take the lead and make your intentions known. Show genuine interest and attraction, communicate openly and assertively, and make bold moves that demonstrate your confidence and desire.

Remember, it’s not just about saying the right things, but also about exuding the right energy and body language that communicates your masculine presence.

And most importantly, never settle for being someone’s “friend” if you want something more – always aim for what you truly desire and deserve.

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#64

What programs do you currently have that you think might help with that?

What programs in the main shop do you think could help you with that?

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#65

I’m currently doing a DR+Phoenix stack, and recently added PS

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#66

PS is a good one it will help you immensely just ensure you go out and socialize on a regular basis whilst running it.

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#67

So I want to make sure I’m understanding this:

You are running Dragon Reborn, and Phoenix: A Dragon Reborn Experience?

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#68

Exactly

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#69

What stage of DR are you on?

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#70

I’m on stage 2, listening for 3 minutes, and I plan to do 2 cycles per stage.

I am currently at the beginning of the second cycle of DR st2

Edit:

I was also reevaluating whether to include Wanted Black instead of PS.
Which one would help more with fear of not being enough, need for approval,
sexuality issues and fear of showing sexual interest?

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#71

They both do all of that. It’ll depend on which of the title clicks easier, which of their objectives Resonate with you, and what style you wish to embody.

Keeping in mind that WB, by its nature, might need longer playtime to grow into it, opposed to PS.

Take Primal into consideration, it does all of those as well.

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#72

I would answer that 2 ways. First, it’s possible that there might be a number of them that could address those issues. My concern is which one might work best for YOU.

The other way I would answer that is probably not in the way you would expect. I think listening to DR and Phoenix at the same time is a more than a double dose of healing. It’s more like:

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I would encourage you to reconsider the idea of adding in a third subliminal, even if you think you’re just fine.

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#73

Excellent questions from @RVconsultant.

Knowing this puts your question into much greater context.

It’s important to know the difference between:

  1. An issue, problem, or learning process that would be helped by adding a subliminal; and

  2. An issue, problem, or learning process that is actually being catalyzed, activated, or emphasized by a subliminal that was already added. (In other words, that issue, problem, or learning process is part of the growth and transformation process associated with the program.).

This is especially salient when working with Dragon Reborn.

In case my words are unclear, I’m saying that it’s very likely that you started thinking of this issue in the first place because Dragon Reborn is working on it and healing it.

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#74

That was my experience with Phoenix. I ran ot for 2 cycles and then I realized a lot about selflove which led me to LB which is working wonders in my life.

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#75

What do you recommend me to do?

#76

How long have you been running DR and Phoenix?

What have you noticed changing?

How often do you listen to each during one week?

What recon symptoms do you notice?

How intense is your recon?

#77

As someone who went thought this in the past and went threw a whole transformation phase in my dating life (seriously @Extraordinaire and @Demian have seen it themselves). It’s really two simple things that so much of the advise offered in this thread won’t help you with your current situation except @Saiyan4Blue and @Malkuth advice.

Simply 1) she’s not interested in you so move on. You made your intentions clear and polarized her. If she says I just want to be friends great then she’s not into you and you can move on with your life and go for a girl that is interested in you. I’m shocked that people are giving game advice to a girl who’s not interested in you. No amount of game, pick up, etc will change that (she may change her opinion of you in the future but not because of game).

  1. your overly needy saying this with the most respectful way as I’ve been threw that before too. You’ve invested so much time into this one girl who doesn’t invest any back.

Solution, honestly WB might be the best option. All you need is at least do some kind of action and you can have no game and still meet and be with attractive girls like: The Nomadic King - Results from months of mystery - #31 by Vesper

Now when I mean action, it’s simple get in shape, improve your looks, go out and just start talking to girls. It’s as simple as that. Also seriously read the book Models, it’s the best book on romance you will ever read.

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#78

I’d say Wanted or Primal :man_shrugging: also totally watch some vids by ToddV on youtube, they will for sure help. Aside from that, I’d say tease and flirt. The way girls get attracted is weird and not like guys. Like if you’re kind of a douche, they’re into that. Basically you have to act and really try to feel like you don’t care what she thinks of you or whether she’ll like you or not. Do not agree with everything she says, and even go out of your way to disagree with some things, even if you agree. You need friction to ignite a flame.

Edit: erased all that so as to not overcomplicate it.

Anyway I’m a little high, happy 4/20!

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#79

I think with good enough game though, you will see the majority of girls as being in at least the “middle ground”, and only a small percentage being a hard “no”. And as ToddV put it, she isn’t rejecting YOU, she’s rejecting the approach and/or it’s the wrong situation and/or her dog just died etc.

#80

Awesome man, probably will run these next cycle.

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#81

Damn, did you run all 4 stages, 15 min loops?

#82

Lol.

Perhaps some kind.

The kind of women I like would throw their beer into your face if you act like a douche. Some wouldn’t even mind if it’s still in the bottle when it hits your face :joy:

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