Yes. Excellent.
Pheromones probably make it less likely to be friend zoned- if you’re close enough long enough… You make me want to buy Glow next… I have everything but Glow, Pencil Thin Mustache and NAG (I have NA)
But you do have to value yourself and believe you’re worthy (and sexy) for all the things you want in life… Ascension might be the right course.
Thoughts?
Yeeaaaa it’s pretty simple - start with
“How to raise your self esteem”
And after you worked through it-proceed with
“The Six Pillars of Self Esteem”
Both books are from Nathaniel Brandon
Thanks, man!
@FoxDie please see above post for book recommendations.
Perhaps also “Feeling Good” by Dr. David Burns. He gives ways to correct thinking errors.
I thought I should also mention: at PheromoneXS, I would encourage you in general to probably not right now get their badass formulas such as SOB, Brute, and Destroyer.
Unpopular opinion! Get out and get rejected bunch of times until you realise how liberating it feels to approach, get rejected and its not the end of the world. Once thats done you will never see women the same way again… You will feel free
That’s not unpopular.
It’s a really good idea.
(if applied with some balance.)
This is very solid recommendation!!! Nathaniel Branden is the grand daddy of all self-esteem researchers.
I think he had a seventh pillar: The Love of Life. I think he mentioned it at the end of one of his books.
@Leandros does that seventh pillar sound familiar?
Jup it does
Love is self esteem and will power every aspect of self esteem up
So let’s go
I would take it even one step further.
Go out with the intention of getting as many brush offs as possible.
Just go in a mall with the intention of getting 50 brush offs. Just ask them for their number.
Firstly you’ll not feel as bad because your goal is to get brush offs anyways.
Secondly you’ll learn that it might hurt slightly, but not as much as you feared, and that the pain stops rather soon.
Thirdly, you’ll get quite probably one number. It’s a numbers game anyways.
I did this while actively dancing salsa. In the beginning, getting a brush off was super painful. Then I used this strategy and asked only the hottest women I could find on the dance floor. Over time it got better. And from time to time one actually said yes. With two I even danced on a regular basis because we matched somehow and enjoyed it.
If that’s the strategy then this book will be useful. It’s a sales book but the strategy applies to a lot of other things.
Talk to at least 50 women and see what the outcome is.
I already have my past experience that makes me understand that I did something wrong until now. Recalling my past experiences I notice that women repeatedly tell me that I am a good guy, or that they are happy that I am interested in them “but…”, as if they saw some kind of “incongruency” in my intentions and personality, and I’m sure that incongruency is one of the problems which I’m now trying to solve.
Ok i understand my initial impression was that you only spoke to two girls and passed judgement based on this thanks for clarifying. So LB would be a nice sub to begin with.
Insightful.
I was thinking about choice of woman.
What are your observations about this part?
When you notice that a woman is into you, how do you react to that?
Are you more into women who are more distant? Apart from the physical dimensions and attributes, what are the characteristics of the women who inspire you to ‘go for it’? or who seem to check the boxes of your fantasy?
Those questions are quite personal. You don’t have to answer them. But I was just thinking about this part.
Have you run any of these before?
Which attraction and seduction program is the best match with your personal style?
Would you please post a plan about what you want to accomplish in the next 30 days?
I have no problem answering, don’t worry.
When a woman is into me, it depends on whether I perceive her to be at my level or above, I can react in a more natural/detached way with the first, and with the second in a probably more clingy/needy way.
Then once I thought about it, about the question you asked, and I asked myself if I really chase girls who distance me, maybe the answer is “yes”. Maybe I have some trauma and blocks that attracts me to girls of that type, or maybe it’s the opposite, is it my behavior that pushes them away?
Yes, but not for long, to be able to notice the best effects
I would be satisfied if I could remove the traumas, blocks and limitations that are triggered every time I come into contact with women and which create my failure with them.