I’m running a lot of other “get this crap out of my life” stuff. But wanted to update.
My job finalized what date they want me gone. But I spoke my concerns in an email to give myself a paper trail and to stop making myself smaller to avoid conflict that they instigated.
At this point they’ve treated me horribly and I wouldn’t even want to continue with them. But I’m fighting them on this and speaking my mind. If at the end of all this they decide they’ll let me continue employment I’m going to resign anyway. Citing a hostile work environment. I suck at advocating for myself. When people wrong me my first reaction is to minimize my feelings and say it’s not a big deal.
My point being. They’re very much being pushed out of my life at this point. Like a bad splinter. And despite not having another job lined up yet, the amount of relief I feel that I don’t have to deal with them ever again is significant.