I’ve shared I’ve used subs when I feel it’d help someone who may have similar issues. And sometimes I’ve shared when I felt really proud of the results, like “you’re not going to believe this, but…”
But from a poor history of trying to change people for my benefit, I don’t infringe, suggest, or demand that they do what I do. I’ve found when I or others are given a choice to make changes, that is way more powerful than me directing their life. I hate being commanded or manipulated into something, even when it’s good for me. And I don’t like treating others like this as well. I’ve even pulled away from some good activities in my life since my old ways were mostly about trying to persuade people. I stopped it since it made me very unhappy.
Good questions. Thanks for asking.