Day 3: Regeneration (5 mins), LBFH (7 mins)
Yesterday (my rest day) I did my morning bioenergetics, poured a coffee, and got started working on my blog.
I’m following my mentor’s advice around my writer’s block and brainfog when trying to edit articles, which is to work ‘10 minutes on, 10 minutes off’ whenever things get too sticky.
By employing this strategy, I was able to finish an article. Though later in the day I got distracted reading this forum.
My mind was busy in meditation, and body pretty tense with physical anxiety.
Muay Thai went great. We practiced kick-catches, some trips, and the sparring at the end was a lot of fun even though it gassed me out. The guys there have been friendly. Felt good to start executing some basic combos during sparring, and get some succesful parries, counters, and blocks in.
Got way too horny in bed and MO’d again. Well, that was the end of October. Time for NoNutNovember with full dedication.
This morning I’ve listened to Regeneration and LBFH, consciously guiding them with thoughts of forgiveness towards myself and a lady in my life.
SInce done my morning bioenergetics and am now drinking coffee.
Rest of the day is basically - Work on my site, do some stretching and meditation, eat a good meal, work on forgiveness and some manifestation.
I remembered I had a dream early morning. I was at my old workplace. A guy there told me that an ex is now dating someone new. I felt aggrived. The guy told me to just call her.
This afternoon while working, thoughts of her came to mind, alongside a growing sense of loss and sadness.
I noticed some thoughts coming up:
People don’t love me.
Nobody cares.
Why do I always have to be something else to receive attention from women?
Why can’t I just be me?
This young one inside needs some love.
And, as the world is so keen on reminding me, that’s for me to do.
Some bitterness at that, surrounding basically a shy, hurt, younger character inside.
This sadness… fear/craving… when it surfaces from the subconscious, sabotages my peace and productivity. It brings a shut-down, a depression. It needs some nurture.
Meditation was restless, fight-flight in the gut. After meditation I slept for 40 minutes straight.
Eating my OMAD meal was awesome. Felt like a caveman demolishing a steak.
Sat for a forgiveness meditation this evening. It feels like healing balm… slowly unravelling age-old tensions.
porn/sex stuff
Had porn cravings today. When I forgave them, I sensed that really I need to forgive my own sexuality… to forgive my penis… to forgive myself for using porn… to forgive my desire for intimacy… to forgive all the shameful things I’ve done in the past (sex workers, dolls, porn, injuring myself with a bathmate, the list goes on). I feel embarrassed and humiliated writing that here, even, but f it. All that behaviour came as a reaction to real pain and overwhelm, and doesn’t make me less of a human.
Ugh even jut looked at porn for 1-2 minutes, edge, just images no video - PATTERN INTERRUPT TIME. Going for a walk.
edit: later MO’d. Deliberately not to porn. Training away from that a bit, at least. But seriously, time to engage Brahmacharya mode for a few months now. I’m going to read some spiritual texts in the evening before sleep to help channel my energies up.
Forgiveness is my superpower that will help me to ascend my past.