Advice needed here

Then break up with her and don’t take her back. You’re wasting your time and hers.

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She comes back and you take her back only to make her feel horrible again and break up with her. Up to seven times. Bro, let her go and move on. You’re basically traumatizing a young girl because you’re not mature enough to understand that she can’t control how her body works.
She deserves a better boyfriend. I hope she realizes that soon!

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Damn dude tbh you got some healing to do.

You care more about what others think rather than what you think? This simply doesnt make any sense?

Like why even ask her to be your gf? You say you love her and she fulfills everything your looking for in a woman…

And you wanna miss out on a great woman because what ur classmates think??

Fuck dude. Do you want an arm candy trophy wife or a real one? A real one who values herself wont tolerate it

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How does it feel when you walk with a woman and all the guys around look at you as you are not normal?

Like fuck. Your the reason why good girls go bad. You’re being toxic af.

You legit care about what other people think more than her.

And your gonna come back crying in 10 years saying how theres no good girls left.

Fuck. Grow up.

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Why the fuck do you care what they think? Bro, you don’t deserve that girl. Move on!

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Run Emperor and stop caring what other people think about how you choose to live your life

:100:

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If I love her, it feels like they’re all being judgmental assbags.

Who CARES what they think? You’re fucking her, you’re not fucking the ones standing around passing judgment.

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Body type is the least thing.

U say shes great in bed with her current body so who gives a fuck.

And skinny girls are models here in Canada. Chances are this same chick bring her over to Canada and she’ll be the talk of the town

Broke poor areas its typically the beauty standards to be voluptuous, but beauty standards in upper class is all skinny runway models lol.

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I wouldnt say I break up with her I will say I ghost her after some while she start taking again. I broke her virginity after a long time of abstinence (18ys) we actually started when am staying in the hostel

Let me stay I started having serious sex with her 3months ago when I started living alone.
Before the 3months I only had sex with her once ( the day I took her virginity)

Missing out on a wife because of immaturity is prolly the biggest L you’ll take in life

Just sit down and write down do u really want a GF or do u just wanna fuck around

Be congruent and stop breaking hearts

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What advice are you asking exactly? I think the issue here is maturity level.

I feel sorry for the girl to be honest. In any case, if this was me and my friends made fun of my girl, I wouldn’t tolerate it. I don’t do it with them, and I expect the same. I want what I want, and that’s what matters to me.

If she’s doing something unhealthy or anorexic, she will hear from me, and try to help her if she needs it, otherwise her being thin is not an issue for me.

I’ve been with women in different weights, they are all beautiful to me and I appreciated them all. Not once did I take into consideration what my friends or the public is going to think.

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Am currently running New emperor and this came up again.

Attraction starts with you not with anyone else.

If you run Love Bomb you will appreciate everything, love yourself then makes her the love of your life.

We all have imperfections but this is what makes us unique. Better not to focus on the negatives at all.

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And u just fucked it up for the next guy who does deserve her lol

Its this constant cycle of immature dudes breaking a girls heart

And that girl breaks a mature dude’s heart

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If u truly love her let her go lol

I would never enter into a relationship with a girl im not 100% on

If shes not ur ideal body type great, just go for another girl

stop dragging this innocent girl into ur mess just cause u wanna get laid

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I think this is my problem now , I think I won’t see a girl like her in the future so am still trying to keep her.

Do you know – it pains me whenever I see her with other guys.

This is going to be my last comment on this.

You took her virginity and now you’re treating her like shit!

She is too skinny to be seen publicly with you but not too skinny for you too have sex with her!

Bro, you’re just taking advantage of a naive and inexperienced girl and you’re creating a mess in her mind with self-esteem issues that she is going to have to deal with for a long time!

You’re straight up fucking a naive girl and treating like she’s disposable! That’s horrible!!! (Sorry! I can’t find a stronger word)

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She took mine too , that was my first time too.
I take care of her well so far, I take her out , I play with her , my neighbours know her very well, but I just feel ashamed whenever my classmates are around me.🥹

The hell do you care what your friends think? Are you dating her or them? Jesus christ, dude, you trying to impress them? What else are you doing to impress other dudes, bro? Think about that. It’s pretty damn pathetic. As it was stated before, they’d be all over that girl soon as you dump her, cuz it just shows that you’re weak, a man with no backbone, caring about his mates opinions. some of them might even be eying her while she’s with you.

Point is, young guys are generally dumb as a cheap skateboard without the wheels.

Regarding her “structure” 5ft9 (a guelma is the word over there, no?) 50kg, isn’t that like a models body give or take? The hell is the problem. Many guys would die to have someone like that (if that helps you, being desired by others making the value higher in your eyes, you know)

Listen, all of what you wrote, is YOUR problem. You obviously feel some kind of shame when you are in public, you get teased by your friends, and you don’t actually like how she looks.

And I get it, you want to stick your flag in different cuisines. Your right.

Also, God fearing and she slept with ya? God has dropped his ball or Stanley is upping his game. Who are ya kidding, man?

Listen, 5o, here’s my prediction. You are gonna marry that girl and you’ll be whipped :slightly_smiling_face: .

It sounds like you’re one of those kids that just likes to talk a lot.
It sounds like you found a poor girl who’s F*Ed in the head from society, and I wouldn’t blame her, that place, Algiers, is awful to girls, even if you were from one of those boujix families, won’t protect you from the outside; and she, for some reason is stuck on you, and that is giving you one of the highest ego boosts. Work on yourself, it’s good for your health.

And what do you mean by walking down the aisle? You mean in court or with the sheikh? Didn’t know there was walking :arrow_double_up:

Why are you getting back with her? No other options I’m guessing? You could just have a FWB instead or open relationship, no?

Either break it off or stop whining and enjoy your time together. If you don’t plan to marry her, be upfront with your intentions if you’re feeling awful about it. Changing someone is going to backfire on you so bad. And the longer you lag-off the breakup, the more difficult it’s going to be.

Oh, and use a damn condom they’re like 12 for 2 Euros at any pharmacy over there.

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