On another note, Heartsong in my custom is asking the TOUGH questions.
I think @lrw mentioned this at some point, that HS really makes you question your current relationship and if everything is running according to your future plans and needs.
Which, currently, it absolutely isn’t lol
But before I make any judgments and decisions, I’ll wait for that recon to fade, and then we’ll see.
The funny thing is, that Lion IV and Iron Frame give me a mindset that I JUST DONT CARE if I would have to divorce her, if it makes my life better in the long run, go with it.
Also reminds me of this:

The happiness change curve I recently found in a book.
The idea is that most people don’t change themselves, or rather, quit quickly after trying to change themselves and their life because at first, it’ll get worse. But if you power through the valley, you will come out way better in the end.
Recon is the same btw. @Malkuth might like this metaphor.
You run a sub, and get into recon. So first it gets worse. Here is where many quit and/or switch subs. But if you power through and stick with the sub, you come out way better in the end.
Same for a divorce, for example.
Or building your business.
Definitely a manifestation from the subs to come across this book, because it opened my eyes on many of these things.