I have Blue Skies in my custom, and reading this made me think of my experience yesterday (not spider related). Blue Skies was active in me, though I’d not linked it at all until reading your post @Azriel.
I work for a big company run by people pushed by nothing more than profit. And I was doing deliveries servicing their very customers. The message of “go faster” is pushed daily since only numbers matter to them. And images of the fast workers being cold to people by blowing them off seems highly encouraged by management.
Well, yesterday I had at least half a dozen 10-15 minute conversations with clients (all unplanned) and I really enjoyed it. Most are older and lonely, so me talking with them was refreshing for both sides.
Strangely enough, my motive had nothing to do with defiance or retaliation towards the company. My heart was focused on meeting some need of theirs to not feel alone, and I actually felt at ease in doing so.
One woman in a ritzy area shared she knew a true story of a woman who literally willed her whole estate to one postal worker–since he was the only one who ever talked to her! It’s not my motive, but it was surely memorable. Being kind to people does have rewards 