Combat sports are a bad area to judge “scariness” as a personality trait. If there is a machine of destruction and you have to step into the ring with them, that is scary. But in the civil world, you don’t have to fight them. Someone who you know could easily kill is not scary at all if you have no reason to think they will ever try to do so. It would be the lack of control that makes someone like that scary, and I don’t think lack of control is something you should aim for.
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Like most people I have my battles with fear but it’s fear of certain situations, not fear of people.
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