This is really just internal status, leadership, and self-respect.
If you have self-respect, then you won’t tolerate someone crossing your boundaries or messing with you. If you have it congruent, then you don’t attract it anyways. People will also respect your space hence “get out of my way”.
If you have great leadership then people respect it and want to follow what you say.
So basically, any Alpha title - that’s my take.
@Skadoosh : There is no leadership in " Get out of my way", " Don’t fuck with me or I’ll punch you in the face" or “Obey me”. Leadership means someone is following you. People following you out of fear is no real leadership.
you’re so smart
Leadership is referring to the last 2:
If you have strong leadership and you are a great leader, then you are in a position of authority that people respect.
For example: Saint Sovereign is a great leader and people respect his authority.
Additionally, people will want to obey you and follow your commands/suggestions. Isn’t that what makes a great leader?
Which part do you disagree with? Lol
This means “respect my space”.
People with high status, you respect their personal space. If you have high internal status and self-respect then people respect your personal space.
Do you see what I’m doing, lol.
Yes, he worded it edgy and whatnot but there is a practical basis in the manifestation. I’m approaching that, rather than the edgy wording.
False equivalency. @SaintSovereign is respected in here because of the service, value and expertise he provides. That’s what his authority is based on. He commands respect without asking for it. The minute you step into a “respect my authority” or “obey me” mindset, you also step into neediness. If you have to ask for respect, even internally or silently, you never had it, to begin with.
What are were disagreeing on? Lol.
Of course a great leader with strong leadership skills, doesn’t go around telling people “respect my authority” or “obey me”. The people just do it - that’s what I’m saying.
Okay, let me ask this then:
To have an experience where you command respect naturally and people willingly want to follow what you say… is that not the sign of a great leader?
I think fear is absolutely needed
Some people won’t learn any other way
And it won’t happen until you consciously do it and with skill
10,000% agree. In my opinion, it depends on the wavelength of the world you’re in, what kind of experiences are happening. I think full-scope. Everything is viable. Some people are in a country where only a certain shit works.
In the wholesome world though, it’s less about fear more about just respecting boundaries and adults meeting each other where they’re at. Nobody is really walking around in daily life on edge trying to instill fear in everyone… just trying to pay bills and have fun every now and then.
Everyone’s journey is different, has different challenges, different environment, different wavelengths etc. If someone is in prison, the mafia or a crime lord like you said, then you definitely need to be fearsome. If you’re a badass fighter then fear is invaluable and very powerful.
That’s the beauty of human experience, totality is viable and very relative… there is a grand spectrum of experiences going on in the world. I don’t know though, but for myself… viewing this like this has made me less prone to dissonance when coming across different viewpoints or takes. Lol.
Damn this topic exploded 
but in honesty all you guys should fear me because I’m the ultimate alpha gigachad badass around, and I believe my profile pic speaks for that 
rawrrr…
There’s many kinds of fears that run that world in which you describe a world where adults meet halfway and nobody is on edge
They’re ALL on edge
They’re all scared, man. That impending breakup, the impending disappointment
The ultimate pain of having their desires left unfulfilled, mostly.
Hello @Tobyone you scared me man
Even the toughest of men can be ticklish 
To me there’s so many levels to this. There’s different levels in development in society such as in spiral dynamics etc, and as well as personal in different personality types, ego development, spiritual development and so on.
Take an enlightened sage that has lost all attachment to his physical body, as in his world he is not even a self and don’t care if the body dies… so pairing him against a toughneck on the streets, he’ll gladly offer his head to be cut off, and someone not afraid of dying like that is scary for someone still believing they are special snowflake in the realm of the ego… but then again rawrrr…
I agree, my friend. Rawr.
It is written in the sales page that if you combine immortal’s courage and immortal’s blade you will be absolutely fearless.
Combat sports are a bad area to judge “scariness” as a personality trait. If there is a machine of destruction and you have to step into the ring with them, that is scary. But in the civil world, you don’t have to fight them. Someone who you know could easily kill is not scary at all if you have no reason to think they will ever try to do so. It would be the lack of control that makes someone like that scary, and I don’t think lack of control is something you should aim for.
Like most people I have my battles with fear but it’s fear of certain situations, not fear of people.