I think,I need to re read this thread
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I think the best subliminal stack advice for this issue is from the sales page of Lineage: Mandate Eternal:
Single individuals who wish to have a strong family in the future can stack Lineage: Mandate Eternal with Heartsong to manifest the perfect romantic and parental partner.
So if your current girlfriend is the right future wife for you, the stack of Lineage: Mandate Eternal + Heartsong will confirm it. Else it will manifest someone else to you who is more suited to your requirements.
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This might be a stack i run in the future, but right now im focusing on money and fighting.
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All the best, brother 
. Win at life!
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So let me get this straight a girls trip for 2-3 months and she’s probably very young as I understand like 18-20. We all know what girls trips are…an opportunity for free attention and sex without anyone shaming them.
I wouldn’t trust her personally because even if she’s the most loyal girl people are not perfect and young girls want a ton of attention and validation by design. If it was with her family or with you that would be a different story.
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Yep! People are not perfect, girls cheat all the f time because they have so many options for easy sex
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All the time?
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I haven’t read all the comments but I don’t see why it’d be a big deal and this seems to stem from insecurity.
No one on Earth is with their partner 24/7. Your partner is going to work, study, shop, and hang out with their friends without you at some point. At any point during those times they can do bad things without you. This could be cheating, sure. But they could also be smoking, taking drugs, doing illegal business, shoplifting, fraud, or even murder. But why doesn’t it cross your mind that they could do all of these other bad things?
You don’t suspect they’ll do any of those other bad things because you already inherently trust her to not do those things. And your trust was built based on your long-term appraisal of her character. So why not extend that trust to her loyalty towards you? I don’t think you wake up in a sweat every day that she stole money or shoplifted clothes right?
Men that argue that women are “biologically driven to cheat”, “women cheat all the time”, and “women are great at hiding things” are all statements that mask insecurity under the guise of being rational for those who are scared of personal commitment. It’s likely a case of projection too. I don’t mean to ruffle feathers here but those people follow social media channels that selectively showcase women as looking bad to get insecure men’s wallets and eyeballs, giving them a warped viewpoint.
Run Heartsong for a while and have an open conversation with your partner about this. Even if you break up with your partner now because of this, you’re not going to have a perfect world where your partner is monitored by you 24/7 and this insecurity will remain.
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At least, you can keep an eye in your own environment and are able to make changes to avoid certain situations.
Let’s say she does cheat, and that’s the worse case scenario. Okay. So then what? You break up with her? Okay. Now what? Do you feel you are capable of attracting a woman who is as attractive or more attractive than her? One of equal value?
Let’s say you say NO, YOU CANNOT GO. I FORBID IT. What is the worse case scenario here? That’s an entirely different worst-case scenario for this outcome. Sometimes, trying to limit them from say going to a dance class or going on a trip, etc can send the message “PLEASE DONT TALK TO OTHER MEN. IM INSECURE YOULL LEAVE ME FOR THEM.” which sends the message “IM LOW VALUE” is the solid equivalent of failing a shit-test which will result in them leaving – ironically.
What’s the best case scenario to you saying no? Probably she respects your decision and does not go, feeling no ill will towards you over giving up something she’s always looked forward to.
What’s the best case scenario for letting her go? She’s loyal, doesn’t cheat and just enjoys the culture, music, food, sights, sounds but not men/dick/other things available.
Now, what’s the odds of good outcomes a/b and bad outcomes of a/b? Based upon that, what statistically/logically, is your best bet? Great. Now what does your emotions tell you is your best bet for keeping the relationship strong and going? Do they align or disagree? If they disagree, why does your emotional-calculus create a different result than your intellectual calculus? Are your emotions accurate or clouding your judgement? Is it objectively true more so what you are intellectually expecting to occur or emotionally afraid will occur?
Now, given that soul-searching, make an informed decision aware of whatever your personal insecurities you are bringing to the table are…and…uhh good luck! Wish you all the best and the decision you make works out in your favour.
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Love it!
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That’s not a dream. That’s plain hedonism. It is a matter of her being inconsiderate of your feelings. You are lovers who I assume to not be in an open relationship, correct? Feeling this way is not your fault. But they can’t shame you for your personal feelings and values. In their eyes it ends up with you being insecure and how all of this is your fault. If she’s not up to par with your standards and expectations then drop her. You WILL find someone else who is considerate if that’s what you’re looking for. And being single for a while is very underrated these days. Peace, quiet, freedom. Some men even rejoice after a divorce.
Was there a discussion of you going together instead of her friends? Has she reassured you that she won’t cheat on you? If none of this happened it’s clear that she is inconsiderate. 3 single girls traveling for 2 to 3 months looking for fun and adventure where no one knows them so no consequences of shame and accountability. What could go wrong? There are some exceptions but you know her character best so you be the judge.
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Did she ever go on the Trip ?
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She didn’t, a war broke out and all flights were cancelled
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So she have gone anyway, that sucks
She didn’t
So she is going on that trip, in two months she will go for half a year so I broke up with her.
Don’t understand how can you take such a long trip when in a relationship
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Tbh… you let your insecurities get the best of you on this one.
If you can’t trust her then you shouldn’t be in a relationship with her at all.
Besides the whole “Girls trip” what about girls night outs?
My sister and girl friends go on these trips all the time, Its nothing to be concerned about. Just a girls dressing up to get attention lmao. It’s a feminine urge I guess.
If you cannot trust her, don’t enter in a relationship.
If you do trust her, give her your full trust and don’t worry so much, she’s a good loyal girl.
Besides I feel with space and time it creates a deeper bond because it allows her to miss you.
A bit late to this thread but I hope this clears things for future
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Vinci, I resonate with what you’ve written here.
I’ve been silent on this thread because there’s only so much one can know about a relationship from a third person’s point of view and that I haven’t followed it to a considerable extent - because of the intensity of the discussion here.
Trust does not mean she does not go out on night outs - Trust means that certain boundaries that are in place, are never crossed.
@RagnarLothbrok - I suppose, it’s the beginning of a new chapter in your life 
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