I understand that you and your wife come from a generation where infidelity was often viewed as more taboo and less socially acceptable. despite the fact it was happening at the time. Fast forward to 2023 In today’s world infidelity is no longer seen as shameful amongst women.
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This would be super toxic, needy and low self-esteem.
Ultimatums like this would be a reason for her to instantly end the relationship with him.
You can’t limit a person’s basic freedoms like this and expect to be in a healthy relationship.
@RagnarLothbrok
You either trust her and detach, or you don’t trust her but then need to ask yourself why you are with her in the first place. There is no in-between.
The answer lies within how good you truly know your girlfriend.
Also take a look at the girlfriends she is going to travel with. Are they sluts or are they loyal?
Also this:
You basically told her that you don’t trust her at all and never ever will be able to so.
You basically told her to quit the relationship with you right there, because she is with someone who has zero trust for her.
This is a serious mental issue. But it is completely your issue and you have no right to limit her general freedom of traveling just because YOU have a trust issue.
Then you have a general issue with women, because you have the limiting belief that they are all the same and none of them can ever be trusted.
If you are killing her dreams, you do not love her.
Listen to LBFH for at least half a year.
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His current standards are based on fear, lack of trust and low self-esteem, including that all women are the same.
These are not actual standards, but rules and ultimatums in order to stabilize his own worldview.
He seriously needs to build a strong foundation with LBFH in my opinion.
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He’s not wrong. A lot of problems guys have can be easily resolved with Ascension and A Love for Humanity
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Furthermore, having a Love Bomb in you heart, and being KHAN and WANTED, massively reduces the chance of a woman ever cheating on you…
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Yeah, in most cases a woman’s external behavior will simply reflect the man’s internal level of status, self-esteem and self-love. As within, so without.
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I don’t think so she has a choice. Don’t forget she already made her choice of going on the trip. She didn’t tell her bf can she go she’s telling him she’s going. Actions have consequences she can go but she’s gonna be going on her trip single not in a relationship.
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I still wanna know though about her friends are they single are they party girls ? There’s a saying a females single friends will always keep her single
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Just to clarify, i will never tell her to not go, i will never take her freedom or try to control her.
But I don’t think i can stay with her if she does go.
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Yes, she already decided.
What I wanted to say is that it does not matter whether she should have asked him or not, his current reaction and lack of trust reveals topics he needs to work on within himself.
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But what if she does cheat? And doesn’t tell me? I will be with a woman who cheated on me? How can i know?
You will never know unless she tells you or you find out one day through a friend or see something on her phone etc.
Well not totally true if she uses that kiss of death line people mentioned “ I need space “ etc u know lol
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In this case it simply means you don’t trust her.
Which would be fine if she would show red flags of being a potential cheater.
BUT, since you mentioned that you wouldn’t trust ANY woman in the world with something like this, reveals that you have a general trust issue with women in general.
Which then means, that no woman will ever be good enough for you to trust her with basic things like traveling with her girlfriends.
Which means you make it impossible for yourself to ever have a relationship build on deep trust until you solve this issue/limiting belief within yourself.
It is not a coincidence when @Skadoosh tells everyone that LBFH is the most Alpha sub of them all.
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Let’s avoid making assumptions about RagnarLothbrok. He posed a specific question, and it appears that some members are veering off-topic by offering unsolicited advice like what subliminals he should be using . This thread has become quite chaotic 
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I won’t lie if my girl or wife etc said she’s going on a girls trip for 3 months to another country I would have a problem with it especially if she’s telling me not even asking me. That makes it worse. Even if she genuinely doesn’t wanna cheat her traveling and partying for 3 month with close friends is gonna leave her open to the possibility of doing so.
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ZP is “reality pushed through you”.
With the tools we have here at our hands we get to decide what reality we want to live in, what things can or cannot happen in this reality, how others treat us etc.
The man who loves himself and is the living embodiment of a WANTED KHAN (or a similar archetype) is unlikely to be ever cheated upon and therefore this man can relax and detach from trust issues. He will know which women are operating under which internal algorithm. There will be no FOMO and no resentment with regards to any of the women and their behaviors.
One important thing to remember is that everyone’s development while being on ZP is much much faster than that of most people who are not on ZP.
Which means that our perceptions, values, but most importantly, external manifestations (!) change over time and they do so at a much faster rate than they do for other people.
With ZP, we get to decide how our reality shall look like. And since other people have a free will, it is up to them whether they want and whether they can catch up with our constant fast pace of development and change of values and standards. As we grow through ZP, it is a natural consequence that we will encounter different types of people as we move on, again and again.
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You do bring up some points but to me that came way too agressive 
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Im using cfw for healing.
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I apologize if my tone was too aggressive.
I should not comment on stuff when I’m in recon…
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