That’s such a wonderful quote!
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Facts, I’ve realized that this is my main issue. Last time I forgot to ask for her socials. (Remembered this time) But you’re right, I didn’t try and isolate her, ask what she was doing after the party, go in for a kiss etc. It was almost like I was being too indirect, which is stupid cause girls know you want to get in their pants lmao, they not dumb. 
I always seem to hesitate about being direct. Like I find I’m too passive in my interactions. Just feels like I’m chatting with a friend… and I don’t wanna be friend zoned. I gotta work on that lol, I could use a little more teasing n shit. I mean girls always be calling me handsome, so I don’t think they gonna freak out and be mad at me for shooting my shot lol.
It’s the way he did it, passive aggressive, fake kindness, subtle jabs at me and her. Sounded like a jealous chick, was gross to witness.
I was embarrassed for the girl, dude gave me the ick.
Yeah I don’t think it was beta, I just think I could’ve maneuvered the situation better.
Gracias 
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Side note, I’m just now realizing how many opportunities I’ve wasted because of this smh
It’s like I was blind, how did I not see this before?
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Back in time, a girl that I spent all night entertaining without kissing or touching her asked me by the end of the party if I was gay. Guess she was upset 
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Looll ouch!
When I was in my teens I had a few girls over, we’d cuddle, watch Netflix and even then I’d be too scared to kiss her or physically escalate
I had times where I kissed her on previous occasions but was too scared to do it again lool.
Shyness sucks
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Im thinking if khanB can help in pulling the trigger?
If you feel the overwhelming sexy energie in your veins and the obvious thirtiness in her eyes could make thinks much easier
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I have some other thoughts.
How well do you know her?
Could she have set you up, as in trying to make this man jealous by hanging around you?
Also, who was he?
Was he looking for a reason to have a fight?
Was he trying to provoke you?
If it were me, I would have thought that what ever might be going on between them was volatile, and I would have gotten far away from both of them. He was acting aggressive, contemptuous, and humiliating towards you. At parties or places I’ve been to where men act like that, they get ostracized quickly.
Personally, I think you did right by just leaving their general vicinity with as little drama as possible.
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Which subs are you listening to?
I mean I didn’t before last night. But she was talking my ear off for hours lol. Showed no sign of wanting me to leave or her wanting to talk to someone else.
Possible. But she had genuine desire for me.
She was telling me lots of people she knows say that he’s “really weird” and that she shouldn’t hang around him. I could see why lol. I actually thought she hated him. Cause she seemed mad at the end of the night.
A bit, after his first passive aggressive comments about her “Making a new friend”. He injected him himself into our convo and said something like “Ohh I see you guys are still talking, why don’t you leave her alone and go talk to someone else?
I stood my ground firmly and smiled “We’re having a nice conversation. You’re welcome to join us.”
100% their was tension in the air, like they were mad at each other. He brought her to the party, didn’t talk to her all night, then got mad that she was talking to me and not him. She had plenty of opportunity to leave me and talk to him, and when he inserted himself in our convos she seemed annoyed, like she wanted to get away from him.
Yeah I’m kind of happy I got away from that situation, it sucks though cause he cut us off just when things were starting to escalate.
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Khan st4
Wanted
Heartsong (just started, was previously LBFH)
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Ohh also, theirs this hot chick at my gym. She works front desk, beautiful dark tan skin, great figure, must be Latin or Arabic. (My favs 
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She was training with her friend. I finished using my bench, got up and her and her friend were walking in front of me. Suddenly they slowed down to a compete stop right in front of me. Thought maybe they wanted to use my bench.
Hot girl looks at me and immediately felt like I got got hit by a train. Their was some strong sexual tension there. Like I’ve seen her before, but damn I got the hots for her now. Felt like I was injected with pure lust, all off one brief stare. 
After 5 seconds of awkwardly standing their her friend finally moved out of the way.
Then I finished my workout, started walking toward the stairs, saw her and immediately she turned around looked me dead in the eyes. How’d she know I was there???
What is up with me attracting all the girls working at my gym?
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Girl I went dancing with a few weeks back asked me out. Finally got her to fold haha, no way I’m chasing her.
We’re going to a Latin party on Friday. Also seeing Flo Rida in concert that day 
WHERE THEM GIRLS @ GIRLS @ Ooo-ooo…
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Great day today, met a lot of new people at the gym again.
Hot tub is the PLACE. Met a rugby coach, some high school kids, cute girl, and a teacher I knew. Had a great convo!
Saw another guy I met last week, had a great chat. Now we’re set to deadlift together on Wednesday.
Wowowow I’m so social now, is this real life??
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Honestly these results have been crazy for the last few weeks. I’m loving life 
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Ohh I should mention, was doing leg lifts (ab exercise) and a cute girl who looks exactly like…
She walked into the station in front of me. Turned around, stared at me and smiled. Started stretching and warming up. Her friend also turned around and looked at me a few times as they chatted.
I was confused because I thought she was the same girl as the one yesterday, but it wasn’t. Because the girl from yesterday was working front desk…
Found that weird, like reality just glitched. Oh well, the more the merrier 
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I’ve also realized something. As I’m meeting all these people, I’m sort of forgetting who I’ve met and who I haven’t. So sometime people will smile and nod at me, I’ll just think “Do I know him?”.
Reason I bring this up is because I feel like I should try and be more approachable. Not that I need to smile like an idiot all the time, but at least be…approachable? look happy? confident? show emotion?
Idk I just feel as though I intimidate people with my natural emotionless cold look. And what’s weird is that when I’m engaging others, when I’m social… that disappears completely.
Like I could be training and as soon as someone talks to me my demeanour completely shifts to happy, friendly, smiling, confident. And anytime I’m just by myself, I’m sort of nervous, self conscious, and aloof.
So idk what to do other than try and make more friends, so that I can maintain that friendly social demeanour. Or maybe I should try and be that way anyways? Whether I know people or not 
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I mean being more approachable would probably help me land more girls too, heck they’d probably start engaging me first just like that girl at the music festival
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I remember reading somewhere that when you don’t socialise for a long time your ability to tell faces apart and remember names diminishes. But the more you socialise the more this abilities are polished.
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Very interesting
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