Been there.
So there is no custom, right?
I bet it is Khan.
And btw how long have you listened to every stage?
Not yet
3 cycles for each so far
Like your dedication.
So that problem with anxiety around approaching girls or something like that you mentioned before is now over?
It’s weird cause it comes and goes. Probably recon
Went to party last night.
Walked in the kitchen, and this dude put his hands on my shoulders and said “Woah, you are a beautiful man, gahdamn”
I laughed, thanked him.
“Damn you’re jacked bro, that’s shirt fits you real nice!”
“That chain looks hella nice on you! Show it off!”
Meanwhile this cute Caribbean chick was beside him smiling at me. I thought they were together.
Turns out they weren’t.
He left and I start talking to her, we ended up talking for well… the whole night lol. And this other guy (Not the one who complimented me) kept injecting himself into our convos, and in a very passive aggressive way.
He’d say things like “Oh, I see you made a new friend!” “He’s really handsome eh?” “You guys should exchange numbers” “So you’re just going to talk to him all night? That’s cool, you guys make a great pair.”
She told me they came together. So unbeknownst to me, I was stealing his girl lol. She didn’t even seem into him tbh, she was laser focused on me all night.
Eventually we were sitting on the couch, I had my arm around her. She grabbed my hand and put it on her tit. Then mr AMOG says, “Ok that’s enough, we need to talk”. And me being all nonchalant and self amused, I say “Have a seat, we can move over for you.”
Now he seemed angry, “No bro, I need you to leave. She came here with me and I need to talk to her privately.”
Now this is where I question if I did the right thing. I grinned, looked at her, looked back at him. “Alright, enjoy your chat.” Got up and went to the kitchen.
Should I have stood my ground? I felt like I folded a bit, lost frame. Should I have told them “Cool, basement looks empty. Probably quieter over there.” w *Arrogant grin.
Or “no problem I’ll see you when you get back inside”
(Awkward pause from him)
“The back door? Go out there, it’s quieter.”
Something like that you know?
Bottom line is I should’ve stayed on the couch. But I also didn’t want to cause unnecessary conflict. Not tryna be like Tony Montana in that scene where he gets caught with Franks wife.
That dude would’ve tried to fight me, he was one of those jealous losers. I’m too nonchalant to to fight over a girl, especially one I’m not dating.
So after they finished chatting, she seemed mad. When she was about to leave, I hugged her and said goodbye. And she was totally different, she seemed like she didn’t care anymore.
Either way, don’t really give a f. She asked for my Instagram, I followed her but she never followed back so I’m probably gonna unfollow her.
Oh well, you live and learn.
Personally I think you should have done something. If that other dude fought back or something may be let the girl do the talking and if it didn’t go any of the ways then give up.
Making a move is anyway better than not doing anything because then you don’t get anything anyway imo.
How did you feel about it afterwords?If you ponder on it may be you would get an answer.
Yeah I felt bad, like I left this innocent girl to be mentally abused by that whacko.
I think she was mad that I left, it clearly showed that I didn’t care about her.
There’s your answer.
Maybe you should ask her in front of him whether she wanna have a chat with this whacko. If she says no everyone would hear that and if he still persists he would look stupid.
That sounds a good way
And if she says yes you are safe because you respect her decision and you can not be blamed for anything, because you would respect her decision.
Who cares?
Because rule number one, women you never know what is in their mind. So don’t overthink dont try to understand what she went through. Just think about yourself.
Keep in mind :
- In one week or less you will have forgot about her.
- you should have close way faster. Way faster because you never know. Tried to kiss-close, f-closed. Tried to led her outside. Or moved to someone else to let her think about you then get back to pick her number. Man I have my face next to hers sitting next to her I go for the kiss. Even if I get rejected, it sets you in her pants in her mind.
- She asked for your instagram but didnt follow back yet. She may play hard to get. She may be mad. Who knows? But in a week it won’t matter anymore you will have move on. Wait for a week then you will do the right thing without passion. Because if she has no news from you during a week she will think about you about the what if?
- You cant be mad at a guy who try to protect “his” girl.
- Game is game.
I don’t think you were beta or something because the girl liked you and the other guy was pissed so whatever you did worked well. Just need to work on close. You can think on how you will deal with AMOG if you need to. But like you I don’t fight over a girl. I just try to close as fast as possible.
Look at your previous posts, your progresses are accelerating
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Women are meant to be loved, not to be understood. ~ Oscar Wilde