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#201

I should also probably mention got 2 compliments on my fragrance this week.

Women at work told me if I keep pumping weights like am I now, that I’m gonna have Popeye arms lmao

She also complimented me a couple weeks ago saying that “You’ve been working out huh? It really shows”.

Hot chick at the gym stared at me. Later walked in between machines, and proceeded to walk by me (mind you it’s tight and awkward to walk though and she could’ve easily taken the normal path lol. Went to the washroom, came back and locked eyes with me again.

Why is it always the girls with boyfriends :roll_eyes:

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#202

Also girl at front desk has been undressing me with her eyes everytime I see her. Seems nervous around me, overly nice to me.

Another girl working front desk doing similar things. Overly nice, same look in her eye.

It’s funny, other day I forgot my water bottle. I asked girl #2 if the had a lost and found, girl #1 interjected and asked me what it looked like and took me to the back where they keep all the lost items. “Actually, you can just come with me, it’ll be easier.

She found it, handed it to me and gave me that same look. Like total fireworks in her eyes lol.

Man with all these choosing signals and stuff I really want to start making some moves but I’m nervous and idk what to do.

Theirs so many girls at my gym that give me these signals it’s ridiculous. Every time I’m training I see these girls staring, and it makes me nervous. I get overwhelmed, I sometimes have to go to the washroom just to calm down and get my head straight.

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#203

I’m so scared of rejection, yet they’re literally inviting me to come talk to them, to make a move. They’re literally choosing on me yet I still have this imposter syndrome that stops me from doing anything about it.

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#204

The amount of men that would KILL to be in my position is unfathomable. Yet I act like I don’t care and never make any moves. And yet here I am lonely, wanting a girl…

I could have them so easily. If I could just muster the confidence to action talk to one of them then I’d be golden.

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#205

God this is so irritating, being in this position is weird asf

#206

Maybe they want threesome :slight_smile:

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#207

Bam, sexual harassment right there. Take it to the court! Men can be harassed too.

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#208

I think for this would be perfect SS or PS or maybe Daredevil.

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#209

You need healing on this issue. Run one of the subs like PS, Primal, SS, DD etc.

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#210

This guy is already running Khan and Wanted, I dont think he needs another subliminal.

I am with you on this, I was there. Back then I had a girl say loudly next to me “I want to dance with him [ME] but I am shy to ask” lol… I went to the toilets to wait that she left because I could not handle it. :sweat_smile:
But you will get it once you got a few good approach experience.

Two things to ponder:

  1. Being nice is ok everywhere in the world. So if you walk across someone in a place like a Gym and say “Hi” with a smile to a guy or a girl it is ok. In fact you can say Hi to anyone that look at you and it is socially ok. If someone is on your path to a machine, you can say HI. If you have someone nearby you can say HI. Nobody will say wow what a creep who dare to say hi to me.
  2. It doesn’t matter what you say to a girl that opened you/ smiled at you /locked eyes on you. That’s the funny thing. If she looks at you and keep eye contact, she is curious at a minimum. So opener DOES NOT MATTER. She already validated you so you saying any shit doesnt matter, it allow her to talk to you and not come acroos as desperate or to come back later to speak to you. Opener become a things in PUA when you need to create interest. But if she already validated you it does not matter. In a Gym : Hi, How is your workout, Do you come often, You already have a nice body. And the girl will either gigle or contnue the conversation. And it can be casual you dont have any pressure to have a smart conversation. If she doesnt say much just move on nicely. You can still talk to her later.
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#211

Yeah, I was thinking maybe I can revisit st1, use Limit destroyer or rebirth. But I don’t think I’m going to switch subs. I think I’m going in the right direction. The fact that I actually feel this burning desire to make moves is a result in of it self.

True, most people in my gym are very serious and focused. Most people just keep to themselves. Their have been times I smile and nod at people and they just look at me all confused. I don’t really care though, if anything they’re weird for not returning the favour.

Exactly! I heard someone once say that her choosing you (giving signals) is basically her inviting you to come talk to her. Knowing this, what’s their to be nervous about lol. I guess for me I’m just nervous about what to say, if it’s going to feel awkward etc. I’m sure I’ll get better with more experience.

Yeah I’ve come to realize most PUA redpill advice doesn’t apply to me. I’ve been called handsome my whole life by practically everyone, so it always felt try hard using those tactics and girls never responded well to them.

Lool you make it sound so easy, maybe I’ve been overthinking this lol.

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#212

I know, I felt attacked, degraded, I’m not a sexual object… how dare she :triumph:

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#213

Exactly ma man :slight_smile:

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#214

This made me laugh out loud for some reason :joy:

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#215

Try running a social sub with wanted

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#216

My sexual energy is through the roof. Been that way for about a week now.

Weird… I’m not running khan black, yet since it’s release I’ve been feeling sexually charged like never before

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#217

Been very social at the gym lately. It’s funny because a year ago I was so shy, I would just close my eyes and meditate instead of join/start convos.

Now I try to acknowledge everyone and talk like it’s nothing lol. Yesterday 1 by 1 multiple guys hoped in the tub and next thing you know we had all been chatting for over an hour. It was a great time and now I know like 10 new people.

Every time I’m in the gym, I no longer feel like a stranger. I actually made friend lmao, progress… progress.

Even met a dude today, he was telling me about these guys that have been stealing cars in his neighbour hood. Next thing you know, he’s showing me his cars, buddy drives a 2017 Mustang GT500 Shelby :drooling_face:

I knew joining this gym was a great idea haha

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#218

Only thing that sucks is that gym’s been a straight sausage fest.

That gym girl with the boyfriend, haven’t seen her in like a month. Actually, a lot of the girls I used to see I hardly see anymore.

#219

Also I’ve decided to cut back on my loops. After my washout 2 weeks ago, I realized I get better results and have a better life overall when I’m not constantly in recon :sweat_smile:

1x a week
Khan st4
Wanted
Heartsong
Ascension Chamber

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#220

It’s frustrating because I’m impatient. I want results yesterday, so even if I’m in slight recon I’ll still go ahead and run my loops.

But I just end up accumulating more and more recon and I just get exhausted and can’t think straight.

If I can’t even properly execute the sub, what’s the point of running it?

Less is more, from now on