TMB - EoG/E:HoM

[Brandon]

Really? What the heck… can’t test adults for that?

I went multiple times and they told me the same thing. It’s so beyond frustrating. I just want to be tested.

I’ve always had trouble with my focus. I also cannot play a game, or listen to subs without doing anything else. There must be something else to keep my attention, otherwise I’ll get bored.

Exact same. I’m bored so easily it’s annoying. Literally the same with subs too, and that’s mainly why I sleep with them instead of day time.

Even whilst I’m waiting in the lobby for CoD I’ll be on my phone looking at Instagram or messages or whatever.

I spend so much time just deciding a name, nor do I finish titles when I think I’m about to finish them. Things like that.

I do this too. I find my ability to decide things so freaking difficult. I got better thanks to subs but even then it’s hard.
I’m glad I’m not alone on this.

I find myself jumping to another tab in the middle of reading a post.

Relatable as heck.

@JCast can shine more on this for sure, did you get tested for ADHD?

Would love to know more for sure.

@Apollo

I’ve noticed that when I do massive quotes with walls of text that you tend to like my post and not reply. Edit: this is completely fine by the way, I completely understand and don’t need you to reply - nor am I offended aha.

Do you get overwhelmed quite easily and save your thoughts for later so you can reply (if you remember to since I’m assuming your thoughts would be so disorganised).

If so, I do the same thing.
I may be off but just something I’ve noticed.

[Apollo]

Yes! I do get overwhelmed at times, I second guess myself, and I think, hmm, my reply sounds dumb and incoherent, maybe I’ll gather my thoughts so I can respond with something close to understandable.

[James]

can shine more on this for sure, did you get tested for ADHD?

Technically there is no test for ADHD although if there is one I haven’t seen or taken it and I try to keep up with anything regarding ADHD. Generally it’s diagnosed through observation and input from those closest to you. When I was diagnosed my Wife was describing to our doctor some of my habits I had at the time. There are symptoms and you have to fall into a certain criteria

This is from a documentary about ADHD that I have watched probably ten times. My Wife watched it with me and said it was as if they made it about me

[James]

I’ve noticed that when I do massive quotes with walls of text that you tend to like my post and not reply.

It’s part of being an introvert

[James]

I second guess myself, a

I’ve been known to third , fourth, and fifth guess myself

[Brandon]

Yes! I do get overwhelmed at times

I do too, I still haven’t replied to one of RV’s posts the other day because I got overwhelmed and I thought of everything he asked me to do and how much effort it would take, now I’ve just forgotten to reply. I need to get onto that. It makes sense man.

my reply sounds dumb and incoherent, maybe I’ll gather my thoughts so I can respond with something close to understandable.

You’ll never be judged by me regarding this man. I can relate to this too, one of my beliefs that has been coming up a lot is about how stupid I am or whatever, I’m currently fighting that belief because I’m not actually dumb or stupid, just sometimes uneducated in certain aspects.

[Brandon]

Technically there is no test for ADHD although if there is one I haven’t seen or taken it

I’ve seen people comment on YouTube videos when I was doing research stating that there were some kind of tests and they got diagnosed at a certain age. May be wrong though. I’m unsure now.

Generally it’s diagnosed through observation and input from those closest to you.

Yeah, this is what happened. My boyfriend picked up on it. Everyone else just either thought I was strange/weird or didn’t even notice.

There are symptoms and you have to fall into a certain criteria

Can you elaborate? I know you’ve got the video though so I’ll get that a watch too.
Thanks for the video also, it’s truly appreciated.

[Brandon]

It’s part of being an introvert

This is also very true.

I’ve been known to third , fourth, and fifth guess myself

I can relate to this. I just didn’t know if this statement in particular (before I got observed as ADHD by my boyfriend), or ADHD symptoms that I’ve seen, were a thing everyone experienced or if it was actually ADHD.

Hopefully that made sense because it does in my head.

[James]

@Brandon This might help

DSM-5® Diagnostic Criteria | For Adult ADHD

[Apollo]

Thanks man and no you’re not stupid. None of us are. It’s just my opinion but I think all the years of trauma had convinced us that we’re capable of less and we should be happy with less.

Now we fight fire with fire. Subs. If our minds are being dumb, we brute force it with the wisdom it needs.

[Brandon]

@Brandon This might help

https://www.qandadhd.com/diagnostic-criteria

Thanks man, I’ve checked it out. Gotta say I looked at it initially and saw all the words and totally got lost, I don’t know if this is a feeling of ADHD?

It’s the whole getting overwhelming feeling I mentioned about Apollo…

[Brandon]

Thanks man and no you’re not stupid.

I appreciate it brother.
Trying super hard to break that limiting belief. I really think DR has brought it up to make me face it recently because when people say something or make me feel that way now I get annoyed and frustrated - most of the time I’d let it slide, not anymore.

It’s just my opinion but I think all the years of trauma had convinced us that we’re capable of less and we should be happy with less.

Agreed! The amount I agree with you is amazing haha. But yeah, I need to stop feeling capable of less and happy with it too. Great point man. We deserve more and better.

Now we fight fire with fire. Subs. If our minds are being dumb, we brute force it with the wisdom it needs.

We sound like an Army, a Sibling-Hood of Dragons aha.
@RVconsultant would be proud.

Let’s keep pushing and fighting my brother.
These subs will help a lot.

[Brandon]

First night listening to the new stack article recommendations.

2x Stark, 2x TMB Wealth, 1x DR.

Woke up after 5 hrs and 59 minutes sleep.
Massive headache and pressure. This seems to be the norm at the moment.

I feel so much better after deactiving the Instagram.
Already had someone message me thinking I’ve blocked them.

I’m still procrastinating to even start my Tiktok. All I have to do is film, why am I not capable of doing that?

Jesus, just this action step.
I need to buy Limitless Executive to help with and more this but I’m also struggling money wise.

I’m sure TMB Wealth will ultimately help but my focus is on my current situation. GAH, this situation is so beyond annoying.

I just have to make the investment and go for it.
Hopefully I get some money for Christmas

[James]

I appreciate it brother.
Trying super hard to break that limiting belief. I really think DR has brought it up to make me face it recently because when people say something or make me feel that way now I get annoyed and frustrated - most of the time I’d let it slide, not anymore

I tend to feel a lot of us with ADHD had our intelligence constantly questioned growing up. I shit you not some psychiatrist apparently told my parents I would be lucky to graduate high school. Not only was I the first person in my family to graduate on time but I did it with teo extra credits.
The erroneous assumption comes when someone isn’t able to focus very long if at all on the soul sucking , mind numbing, emotional and mental energy draining existence that people some how eek out daily

[RVconsultant]

We sound like an Army, a Sibling-Hood of Dragons aha.
@RVconsultant would be proud.

And to @Apollo

Yes, but remember to look in the mirror and thank yourself. YOU are putting in the work! I’m just, well, doing some typing.

[Brandon]

I tend to feel a lot of us with ADHD had our intelligence constantly questioned growing up.

This is something that happened constantly and still does.

I get one thing wrong, one word especially since I struggle with words that look like they are something but are pronounced something else.

E.g. Buffet.

I’d say Buff-et (I used to anyway), now I know it’s Buff-ay…

So annoying that people judge upon this.

I shit you not some psychiatrist apparently told my parents I would be lucky to graduate high school.

That’s beyond frustrating as hell. I can’t believe professionals would do that too. Of all people.

Not only was I the first person in my family to graduate on time but I did it with teo extra credits.

I love it when you prove people wrong AND do better overall than those who judge you (not that your parents did).

The erroneous assumption comes when someone isn’t able to focus very long if at all on the soul sucking , mind numbing, emotional and mental energy draining existence that people some how eek out daily

It’s draining as hell focusing on all of that but it’s all I’m ever noticing from people. Once you notice it you can’t stop. I spoke about this earlier - what I call The Observarion Barrier - you don’t notice something until someone calls you to it and it’s all you ever keep noticing.

Back on track though, it’s vile what happens with people and judgement.

[Brandon]

Yes, but remember to look in the mirror and thank yourself. YOU are putting in the work! I’m just, well, doing some typing.

Of course, but it’s a partnership. I appreciate you always reminding us that we also put the work in - even if someone motivated and inspired us to do something or get somewhere.

You’re an incredible soul @RVconsultant

[Apollo]

I hear you. I’ve been labeled as a black sheep growing up but in my heart I’ve always wanted to help my relatives, I still do and I still want to, it’s just a part of me.

I feel sad for kids who are going through crap like this.

[Brandon]

Some of the new modules in the Module Volume 3 Pack must have been made for me and what I wanted out of life haha.

I’m literally browsing them as I plan my sub.

Currently looking at:

Chosen Venus - Who doesn’t want to be loved and have the aura of love? It’s definitely what I feel I need and want to be honest.

Sacred Writer - This would help with a lot of things as I talk to a lot of people over text than I do in person, especially guys who I ask to help me out - if you’ve read my Khan journey you’ll know what I’m talking about. This makes me feel like I’m using it to manipulate people but I’m not, and I have to put this out there.

GlorySeeker - Obviously fame and fortune is my goal. I need this in my life and my custom. Being recognised for what I do is important to me. There isn’t much that needs to be said regarding this.

Fortune’s Favourite - A luck module right? I’ve been hoping that SC would make a major on this but to put this in my own custom sub would be incredible. I used to use YouTube subs before I found SC on my desperate search and I’d use the Luck subs. Funnily enough one seemed to work but now I know that this will be better.

[Apollo]

@Brandon looks like you’re cooking up something awesome. You got this