Such as purchasing a certain model of car. All you see on the road after is that same model.
I am often bored to fucking tears with the shit people find interesting or what’s considered popular
I’ve never been labelled as such but I’ve felt it. I’ve felt like I’m the one people forget about or whatever.
That’s something I’ve had as a goal for myself in general but I didn’t really think about it much until I used my E:HoM/EoG custom again this week. I need to spend more time with my family and do better for them.
My mom and dad do a lot for me. I’d like to get to know my sister’s better too, and their kids. I’m not as close to my family as other people are.
It’s a massively lonely time for kids like this. Very unfortunate and it’s hard to know you’re loved when you don’t feel like you are. No amount of being told you are changes that, just consistent action towards it every day by someone who does.
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I’m a snob or elitist when it comes to music and I will openly admit it. I either like it or its shit. Part of me is hoping Dragon Reborn addresses that and part of me doesn’t care
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Yup! Funnily enough I made Tie-Dye clothes this week for my company as a Christmas present as I’ve never had shirts or whatever branded - what’s the next thing I see? Everyone in Tie-Dye tracksuits, tops, joggers. Not even a Google algorthim thing but a in real life, social media type thing.
Dude don’t even get me started haha. I can see what’s popular and I like some of the stuff but the way people constantly drone on and especially when they hype someone up who’s utter fake and they make them out to be a God.
Just no.
I need to rant lmao.
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I feel this, and not just music but other things too.
You either like it or you don’t. There isn’t really an in-between. I know us (possibly me) ADHD guys have struggles making decisions but it’s either a yes or no kind of thing for most stuff.
I hate that fake lets please everyone else kind of stuff.
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Oh, been the topic of so much gossip in the family, I was like a punching bag. Now that I’m an adult, I’m being praised for being generous and helping out, which I’ve always wanted to do even when they we’re judging me. I have this hero complex that just wants to fix things and save everybody.
I need to fix myself though, I know I am capable of so much more. So do you @Brandon and @James
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If it’s something I don’t really want to do I can procrastinate on it. Most of the time it’s the other way around. I get annoyed with people that are indecisiveness or take what feels like forever to make a simple choice or say yes or no.
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That’s the problem, I have so many things I really don’t want to do… 
I want subs to push me to WANT to do those things. Cause man, once I get going, it’s almost like an obsession to see things through.
Feel free to rant in here anytime man.
I’m going to rant about my life tonight, I’m holding onto so much freaking judgement and anger for other people that I really just need to let it out.
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Or people who can’t say up front that they can’t or don’t want to do something. Passive aggressive answers or telling you to call them back in ten or fifteen minutes then not answer their phone. What is that?
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Oh yeah. But in the same vein as phone calls? I hate getting them. Seriously, specially random unknown numbers suddenly calling my phone. Wtf. I.hate.that. Text me first to say who you are… 
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That’s me. So much shit gets dumped on me and yeah it is probably my fault to an extent because when you do something for someone a couple or few times they start to expect it
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@Apollo I hate talking on the phone. Specifically to call to make an appointment or the pharmacy.
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My man, that’s horrendous. I hate that.
Me and my boyfriend are kind of that now but for other peoples judgement and gossip.
It’s horrible and it makes you feel terrible mentally.
Proud of you for sticking with your heart and still being helpful and generous dude. You’re a great man, I can tell. Don’t let their judgement drown you down.
I truly swear we are the same person or we have the same qualities and issues aha. Without going into a deep ness as it might bring up a bunch of trauma - honestly it’s probably been healed, I relate to this more than you know. I really try and be the hero everyone wants but they toss out when they’re done with you. Only you don’t know they’re going to toss you out because you hope they’re a better person than the last.
We are fixing ourselves. All of us. DR is working it’s magic and we are working ourselves along side of it. We’re doing great things.
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I had this conversation this week. It’s a people pleasing thing. People want to be liked and will commit to something they can’t do. It’s a hard habit to break, I used to have it.
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I must be a weird fucking introvert because I even hate checking my email
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Yeah we are
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Phone calls raise my anxiety so much. Beyond the limit. I can’t even talk on the phone most of the time in front of my boyfriend, it’s crazy. Someone who is branding the shirts for me called me today and I said text me instead and purposely missed the call, but I still left the room in case so I wasn’t around my boyfriend to hear - even though it was a harmless call.
I always ask someone else to do it. It makes me feel stupid if I have to set an appointment up or anything similar.
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Me and my boyfriend are trying to break this. This is actually part of my rant I’m going to do later. We’ve helped so many people by being people pleasers and then they treat us like we are nothing and crap back - but they still expect us to help them when we are doing great stuff without them and they want to join in so they can be noticed?
Like no man, wtf.
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