Hey there,
@SaintSovereign probably remembers the heated debate I unintentionally started about “submissiveness” and “alpha women” in the Seductress dev thread
After a lot of confusion, my wife still decided to run Seductress Qv2, but she can’t and doesn’t want to write her view of it here, so I’ll give a review on it from MY perspective as her Husband. I am sure this is still valuable.
Setup:
The first 1-2 months, she only listened to it on Friday and Saturday night, one loop.
This is due to our 1 year old. When I work she needs to hear him over the babyphone.
However, he sleeps much better now, so currently she does one loop every other day at night.
She does NO journal, even though I told her multiple times it’s vital, but she always says “I don’t know what to write there?”
And, important note as well, her English is really only very basic conversational English, so I am not even sure she understands everything. However, she listened to the Elixir Supercharger once and said she understood everything the lady said. So I guess it’s fine.
Actions she takes is doing the hola-hoop ring as exercise almost daily, and, well, sex.
So, bad setup, right? But here are the results.
- The first few weeks, there was not much noticeable. Probably not enough exposure or the subliminal needed to “Break through” some blockages.
- Now it’s firing:
- She is MUCH more feminine. She is way more interested in cute and sexy dresses, lingerie, generally looking good
- Her hair shines bright. Not kidding, it IS noticeable. It also grew much longer is just “fuller.” Idk how to describe this as a man, but it just looks great.
- Her ass got much more firm and fuller. Definitely noticeable from my perspective.
- Her boobs also “filled” up more. I wouldn’t say they grew, but they are firm.
- For the first time ever, her nipples were REALLY hard when having sex and she was very sensitive to them.
- She is MUCH more sensual in bed. She enjoys it more I can tell. I am not running sexual subs right now, so that’s her. Much more confident to also get her way. Much more confident in what she does to or with me. Trying things, etc.
- Way more assertive with other people.
- She is also more touchy and loving towards me and our child than before. Her astrology makes her a good mother anyway, so seductress brought that more out of her.
- Her make-up seems to be better. She said she didn’t change anything, but for me, it looks better.
- She’s much happier and comfortable in her skin I can tell. Generally in a good mood more often.
- She can parse and handle her emotions better. In the past, she would get mad over irrelevant little shit, this stopped. She shruggs it off and proceeds with her day.
- She’s just fucking hot right now haha
"(Not really) Negative things"
- Her being way more assertive comes from a negative point. As in, she puts others down to get her way SOMETIMES. She didn’t become a [Moderator Edit: This might be your last warning], but I’d say if she’d run healing subs or seductress for much longer, she’d try to assert herself from a more positive standpoint. Either way, the confidence works.
- She definitely is much more assertive in the relationship. She wants her way more often and the “shit tests” increased. However, I am totally fine with it because that gives me opportunity to grow.
- Saint mentioned that you need to be a great man if she becomes a great woman via seductress. I noticed that.
As it is said, "Before you can have the woman of your dreams, ask yourself if you’re the man of hers." - She enjoys a primal man much more. Or I should say, a man secure in his skin. I definitely noticed that she gets more aroused when I am fully in myself and just being open about my sexuality. Not a negative thing, but you should be aware of that.
Please note that I put those “negative” things in quotes. They’re not really negative, but for some they might. I enjoy them.
Overall, fantastic sub! From my perspective.
She still says she notices NOTHING. Which is funny, but also tells me how important journalling truly is if you want to notice results YOURSELF.
For me, they are VERY profound.
So gents, build your own confidence and get your girl on Seductress