My partner has come up with all these dreams that he manages to turn into pipe dreams. The latest one was were he was going to turn something into millions of dollars. I warned him that this was it and he was going to lose me if it turned out to be just a waste of emotions, time, energy, psychological damage and money. Well, he ended up losing tens of thousands of dollars.
I was surprisingly supportive and told him that he can make that money back. This was last night. Then this morning, a relative tells me that I have to go sign all these legal documents. I said my partner didn’t tell me about this. Then I can see when I talk to him that he knew that I was in so much shock last night that I didn’t grasp that I had to go sign these documents today. I made it clear that part of his lack of success in life has to do with his communication skills, and I refused to go and mess up my day to go sign his legal documents.
I also called him a loser. I know that sounds really horrible, but it’s the truth, and I’ve been supportive and uplifting all this time, hoping that he would use that to turn around. Apparently that didn’t work, maybe the sting of reality is what he needs to start moving up and finally start putting his high IQ to work. Such a shame he hasn’t conquered whatever it is that’s mentally holding him back from his potential.
There is a lot of change that has occurred in the last two or three weeks, and I think that it’s related to him running Chosen. He has become really popular to other people who don’t have to be in a close relationship with him. I don’t know where this will all lead. I have hope, but I’ve had that before with this guy and I always end up disappointed.