Iâm not @anon2351792 but I thought I could still help
Ejaculation and Orgasm are two separate things.
The orgasm is a release of sexual tension when the ejaculation is a release of liquid! They are triggered by two different systems in the body. We are just used to the fact that they always happen almost at the same time. But if you ever noticed, the orgasm starts a little bit before the ejaculation starts. It is just because of a a well implemented reflex that the orgasm triggers the ejaculation. The orgasm is controlled by the parasympathetic nervous system which is related to relaxation. On the other hand, ejaculation is controlled by the sympathetic nervous system which is more related to the ââfight or flightââ response. It is also related to stress and anxiety.
The orgasm causes the body to release a hormone called dopamine, which relaxes you and makes you feel great. But unfortunately, the ejaculation causes the body to release another hormone, the prolactin. This is the hormone that makes you want to just go to sleep. Because of prolactin, you pretty much lose all interest in sex and you have a refractory period. Which means that for most of us, we need some time to have an erection again. When you learn to separate your orgasms from your ejaculation, you can then experience pleasant effects of dopamine without the downsides of prolactin.
And Iâll tell you one more little secret. When you reach orgasms without ejaculating, and letâs say that you decide to ejaculate later or another day, the body will release a lot less prolactine in your body and youâll feel its effects a lot less. Actually, I almost have no refractory periods anymore when I choose to ejaculate. Now, I donât know exactly why itâs the case but itâs been true for me and other men too.
1) Itâs more fun this way.
You guys can understand this: one orgasm = fun. Multiple orgasms = more fun. Simple math.
2) You will access new states of consciousness normally requiring illegal substances.
Ever felt like you were blasted into infinity? As it turns out, that roller-coaster ride is free, and itâs right inside your head. The Taoist and Tantric Buddhist masters have used sexuality for centuries as a pathway to higher consciousness and enlightenment.
3) You will feel energized after sex, not depleted.
Normally, after intercourse, and man has depolarized his masculine energy. This is better known as rolling over and playing dead. What if, instead, you were so energized that you felt you could move mountains? Your partner may even prefer it to the heap of jello you normally become.
- You will derive long-term health benefits.
The Taoist masters say that by retaining your semen, you achieve greater health and longevity. These teachings have been around for 2500 years, so Iâm in no position to argue with them.