@Skadoosh those two last posts man. They really resonate, and quite deeply so.
I don’t want to derail this thread with esoteric musings of a “transmundane teacher archetype/essence” but man, I need to reflect further on this… 
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Lol, too late I already did it.
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lol… 
It really depends… if you live in superficial land, then yeah they’re like mythical creatures, lmao.
In my experience, women who are well connected to nature, have self-love and are open to their emotions are pretty much all like this. If they’re into art, then it’s a given (in my experience it’s been 100% rate). So if you go into those circles, then it suddenly becomes the opposite in which:
Did you see what I just did there? How I just flipped your statement around?
You can get into a pocket of reality/experience where these are the main types of women you encounter on a regular basis.
You have to congruently be tapped in to certain environments, people and social structures, otherwise you will be subconsciously incompatible. You have to be on the same wavelength.
It’s all about compatibility.
That means it all depends on you.
You can’t be in superficial land and then meet non-superficial people… especially not romantically.
I’m telling you all this to assure you that there are other “worlds” out there and millions of single high quality women that are your type out there. In ridiculously insane abundance, there’s no shortage. They’re all single, lol. The percentage is not 0.001%, it’s relative to you. That’s why you want to grow as much as possible to unlock different experiences.
That wavelength isn’t in the superficial trauma world of ego, porn, low self-worth, weak self-love, emotional issues etc which is basically 90+% of men, hence why they’re scavenging around acting like high quality women are legendary pokemon. As if it’s some “redpill” fact of reality. It’s all bullshit, lol.
“Oh look at me I’m so redpilled and knowledgeable about the dating market”. = Complete Idiot.
Meanwhile tons and tons of men are encountering these women on the regular, lol.
If you upgrade yourself and grow as a men, then you will naturally find yourself in the pocket. It’s called moving the goal post. People who have upgraded their social circles after growing immensely through self-development - it’s the same exact concept.
I swear to you I’m only writing this because I went to a party recently of 20 people, and ALL of the women were super high quality, witty, deep character, wholesome, etc. A lot of them single too but I’m already taken. Then I saw your comment and was like “this just isn’t true, lol”.
Your comment is saying that these women are super rare and meanwhile I just met a bunch that I couldn’t do anything with. So hopefully you can understand my dissonance, lol. My intention is to tell you that you don’t have to have that depressing outlook because it’s just false.
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Makes sense, I see what you mean.
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It’s a bit hard to compare Alphamale and @Skadoosh but I see what you mean. One is a guy in his 20s who’s bullied countless members of the forum the other is a respectful gent who’s successful, polite and is in my opinion an amazing human being aka @Skadoosh. @Skadoosh has actual life experience the other welp I won’t say anything about that.
Make sense finding something your passionate about that helps you financially is not easy. I know a few successful folks in this forum and we’re all in different industry but what’s the same between all of us is our passion and skills for that industry. That’s what create success.
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The Black Emperors…
[Mod Edit: Yeah, this image got flagged.]
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Easy, lol. Listen to subs that make you more masculine on all levels.
That’s really all I did.
There’s no such thing as “toxic” masculinity or “too much” masculinity. These are false concepts.
Also be wary of men who advocate for feminine energy, and being in touch with your feminine side… in an age where masculinity is beyond starved.
Some people don’t understand why I say this, so I’ll try and break it down, lol.
There’s a concept that I use called Allocation of Emphasis.
Basically, imagine that you walk into a room where 99% of the people are incredibly obese.
A logical/rational allocation of emphasis would be to constantly talk about the importance of healthy eating and eating less while hardly or never talking about the idea of eating more.
The allocation of emphasis would be:
95% healthy eating and eating less.
5% eating more.
The allocation has to be aligned with the current state of people.
The less aligned it is, then the more you’re leaning towards insanity, lies, brainwash, dogma and coping mechanisms.
For example, if it’s:
60% healthy eating and eating less.
40% eating more.
Then yes the scale is tipping meaning it acknowledges the current state enough to prioritize something over the other… but the allocation of emphasis isn’t truly aligned because 99% of the people in the room are incredibly obese. The acknowledgement is not enough to the point that it’s irrational. The numbers aren’t adding up. The allocation of emphasis is not reflective of the current state.
Insanity is when the scale tips in the other direction.
For example, if it’s:
10% healthy eating and eating less.
90% eating more.
In the room where 99% of people are incredibly obese.
You have to ask what’s going on here because it’s rationally insane based on fundamental thinking.
The only things that override fundamental thinking are false belief systems, fear, coping mechanisms and brainwash, etc. Sketchy and manipulative shit. Always be wary of sketchy shit. Lmao.
(all my personal opinion and not interested in debating anyone about anything).
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to add to this concept
When something important is starved…
Complete lack of prioritization/emphasis = insanity
Then you have to look at degree of prioritization/emphasis.
Low level of prioritization/emphasis = insanity
Medium level of prioritization/emphasis = insanity
Very high level of prioritization/emphasis = logical/rational.
The allocation of emphasis has to be congruent with the state.
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In an age where masculinity is starved out of men and all types of stuff such as testosterone levels being the lowest, etc.
Yes, feminine energy is important as a man and so is balance.
But it makes zero sense to talk about the importance of eating a lot of food in a room where 99% of people are incredibly obese.
That’s insane, lol.
What’s being said isn’t insane, it’s the disagreement between what they’re emphasizing and the current state of the environment. It’s the lack of priority and emphasis in relation to the current situation. Like, there’s no perspective.
That lack is usually being triggered by some messy stuff, such as a coping mechanism, internal fear, false belief system, shadow self, etc. In my experience, when things aren’t straight down the middle - it always smells like coping mechanism.
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I wonder, what is the difference between female energy and feminine energy 
It’s the same thing.
Naturally there’s a masculine energy and feminine energy. Like a yin-yang dynamic.
In my experience, the fastest and most reliable way to understand feminine energy, is to increase your masculine energy.
By doing this, you become more sensitive to feminine energy and that sensitivity allows you to understand it more.
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By setting yourself apart, you can see the distinction more clearly. As opposed to androgany where one is muddled up, there is no clear distinction. I get ya
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Yes, exactly.
There is nothing wrong with being androgynous, or a man having more feminine energy than masculine. I’m a fan of David Bowie who is known for popularizing an androgynous look.
Everyone is different and a unique package.
Not everyone is going to be Rambo or Dutch from Predator, lmao.
Whether you have feminine energy, masculine energy or androgyny… you can have whatever, it doesn’t suddenly mean that you treat people like shit or become an egocentric maniac. Nor does it mean that you let people walk over you and dominate you.
Toxic behavior and being a good human being, isn’t sexually dimorphic. Being respectful isn’t sexually dimorphic. Trauma isn’t sexually dimorphic. Poor mental health and emotional issues aren’t sexually dimorphic. Self-respect, self-love and self-worth aren’t sexually dimorphic. False belief systems about yourself or reality… aren’t sexually dimorphic
You can boost your masculine or feminine energy as much as you want. You can also accept, embrace and explore these parts of yourself without shame.
There is no side effect or toxicity. We live in narcissism culture, where 99% of people are traumatized. Naturally people will view masculine and feminine energy through a lens of trauma, toxicity and ego. They need something to project all of their own bullshit into it - same thing they like to do with everything else.
Same thing they like to do with anything natural, boundless and beautiful. Look at what they’ve done with sexuality, lmao.
Lol, alright I’m done for today. Hahahahaha
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Damn, I’ve noticed that recently. Seen this girl in the public park, playing around with a hula hoop.
Swirling it around her body, balancing it in her forehead etc.
When I used to watch porn my mind was filled with a lot of unhealthy “need to get laid” compulsive thoughts.
But this time It was her that flashed me.
Like I’ve been unable to see the raw femininity when I’ve used to be wired for porn.
The grace, the beauty of her movements, how she expressed her femininity through her body…
Captivating
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This guy is the fucking GOAT, lmao.
Armored Core, lol. I think I found Waldo.
Interesting how such a phrase has massive parallels to this forum and the type of work that a lot of us do.
The “core” of your mind being your belief systems, thoughts, identity, values and perceptions. The structure that supports your entire framework.
The “armor” being the coping mechanisms we use to protect our core belief systems from challenges and contradictions.
And growth.
The willingness to temporarily shed the protective armor in order to examine new perspectives, expand our understanding and refine our core beliefs based on new information. The uncertainty and discomfort that comes with that. Personal development.
(I’m joking, hahaha).
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All flags go through RVconsultant, DarkPhilosopher, Saint or Fire. Posts aren’t removed without admin knowledge. So there could have been a good cause for it.
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