Story Of Jack | Khan & stuff

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#113

I see your point, but what does alignment mean? Like the way I understand your point is, stick to your strenghts and avoid working on your weaknesses. Which is a valid point if you don’t want to heal, or spend time backtracking.

Say LBfH, if I have alot of blockages or never felt unconditionally loved as a kid, I will feel alot of recon on LBfH and this is actually a sign that this is something I need to delve into, to explore. So that means I will get the most growth out of this sub. Of course, you’re right, I will not feel aligned with something that is underdeveloped in me.

I run LBfH precisely because it’s not aligned with me.

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#114

That sounds like a great idea :joy:

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#115

I’ve always had great ideas

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#116

It’s interesting though, if I go by vesper thoughts on this matter, RoM/RoS where the most “flow” I had.

I remember writing a review saying whatever goal I have, it will come to fruition if I run RoM/RoS, because what I lack is that groundedness they brought me. I just need to get out of my own way and take action. Which means be grounded.

Also I had recon on WB and it led me to realise my mindset or blockages in self-love. And I realised this is something I need to work on and transform. I will most likely go back to WB after a cycle or two of LBfH, see if it made any difference.

#117

Not necessarily stick to your strengths and avoid working on your weakness. It’s more so having a title that is most aligned with who you are. Example: If extroverted and are in tech running Stark would be more aligned with who you are then running something like Wanted Black.

So with LBfH it’s bit different since it’s a healing sub. With what I meant is more so skill based subs or archetype type subs. With healing sub, the notion I mentioned doesn’t really apply since there isn’t really a notion of being naturally aligned with a healing title. Something like a healing sub would for most people cause recon due to it trying to heal and achieve the necessary objectives it’s set to be used for so results from it come from so from the healing done so it’s bit harder to explain.

To be honest, for this tho wouldn’t be the best person to get advice on as I don’t believe in healing subs unless it’s Khan ST1 or if someone has deep rooted issues that they needed healing from (Example: severe traumas). For most people, having a main sub like Emperor, Stark, Khan, etc would provide more than enough healing for the goals they need to achieve.

Now in your case, you have to try to understand why are you running LBfH. Is their a particular reason or goal your trying to achieve with LBfH? If yes can it be done with a different sub that can be more alined with me and give me better results? For example, if your running LBfh because you want to get healing relating to feeling loved and giving other people love so you can attract/date more girls then would it potentially be possible to just run a romance sub instead which would give you the needed healing + more. That’s just one example but there’s many more for this situation

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#118

In this case, you really only need to run WB instead of LBfH. Now this goes back to the archetype discussion but remember that WB is not the only romance sub. There’s a few more and all encompass a specific archetype that the sub will align most with and will help you achieve (this is purely my view on this too). Some examples are:
WB for the mystery and coquette type archetype An example is the guy from Californication.
Stark for the extroverted charismatic leader archetype. An example is Tony Stark. For this, I truly believe this sub once upgraded will have the most mind blowing romance results similar to WB if not better then WB especially for those who are more the extroverted and social archetype. The updated romance script will change there romance results forever. I almost 99% guarantee Saint and Fire can achieve this.
Emperor for the high status and successful archetype. An example is Harvey Specter.
Primal Seduction for the pickup artist archetype.
Emperor: House of Medici and Chosen for the family/long term relationship archetype. An example is the Rockfeller family.
Khan for the social and dominant archetype. Gets what they want by the constant actions he take towards it. An example is that one polarizing individual who gets all the girls and has that certain aura about him that gets him the girl.

That’s the main ones I’d say but there’s also others.

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Executive Vesper - Stark Black + Genesis: Mogul + Manifesto QTKS
#119

Yeah I was running LBfH because I feel like chasing things for external validation is draining and not getting me that self-love anyway. I want to do things out of a natural pull and not to fill some internal lack. So in that sense I should have just kept running WB, but I thought perhaps a more focused title in that self-love aspect would bring about faster progress.

Also, I guess I want to deal with my self-help junkie habits. Doing so much just to fill an internal sense of lack, of not feeling enough, and I thought self-love would fix that.

Anyway I see your point, well put. I too am more inclined towards Stark as well, being in tech and dubbed a social butterfly by many close friends. Which is hard to believe as I’ve always thoughts I was anti-social and am introvert. Goes to show how one can be deluded. I also think Stark showed me my inner Stark.

But I also like to develop other aspects too. As I am very social but also afraid of conflicts, so I added Khan to grow my inner Fenrir. So that when the time or moment is appropriate I bring it out.

Of course Stark would eventually help me deal with conflicts if not head on, in a more creative and different way eventually. As it has status and different kind of “conflict-dealing”.

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#120

If your anti-social and introverted Stark may not be the best sub but still a worth a try. Something like Emperor + Genesis: Mogul may be better.

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#121

What I’m saying is that, my self-belief (conditioned) to think I’m not social or anti-social, but people laugh when I say I’m introverted. They don’t believe it. So I think it’s just a limiting belief I have.

But then again my girlfriend says I’m extroverted with a bit of introversion. Which means, if it’s a spectrum she thinks I’m closer to extroversion than introversion.

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#122

Every archetype has his own way of reaching his goals. Look at Tony Stark witty, charming, charismatic and sometimes arrogant (Stark). So arrogant he shares his home address with the terrorists where he lives together with his other half and then what happens, the terrorists come and bomb his place LOL. Its not something i would do ahahaha.

Bruce Wayne more of introverted character, stays hidden from the public (emperor, emperor black). Despite this he gets things done.

So i am guessing every individual has an affinity for a particular sub that gives them a higher flow factor depending on how close they are to a specific archetype.

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#123

Exactly that.

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#124

Haha with that story, I think I’m more Stark. Because friends also tell me I say too much. Lol like tell secrets or stuff you don’t want everyone to know.

(Edit not a snitch, so more of talking about stuff with everyone and being open and my friends are more careful of who they show all their cards to)

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#125

Yup whereas an Emperor would be rather broody and not give alot away about who he is.

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#126

Sounds legit, they are like head down doing their thing from what I understood of saints comments on the new emperor. So aligned with what he says.

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#127

Perhaps a hybrid of Khan and Stark would be good. We’ll see, as I’m still unsure if I’m more this or that, or how much it really matters. Perhaps it’s just like too much min-maxing. Plus Invictus had great results combining the two.

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#128

Could be. Only way to know is to try. I thought I wouldn’t like Genesis: Mogul when it came out and then tried and that gave me one of the craziest results I’ve ever experienced.

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#129

Yeah, that’s the thing too. Sometimes we think we know and then we try something we’ve avoided and wonder why we didn’t start with it from the beginning.

“When the student is ready, the master appears.”

It’s not related, directly, but sometimes we’re not ready for a certain path. Like reading a book again some time later and you don’t understand why you didn’t get the profound insights the first time.

Which is why I’m building a library of books I have to revisit in the future.

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#130

Really well explained regarding flow factor, saving this for reference

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#131

Back in the QV2 days i found stacking stark and khan worked well for me.

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#132

That’s awesome, you had that journey journaled on here?