So maybe RoM wasn’t the best call lol. I hear you on this. I think my issue is in order to observe what’s happening inside of other people I actually have to be around people more. But any type of relationship is difficult for me right now…
That is generally how I perceive people I don’t know that well. They’re like a silhouette and I can observe their behavior or actions, but it’s all speculation until I talk to them. Eventually there’s a more detailed map. But for whatever reason I can’t apply that to everyone by default. Maybe a defense mechanism? I’m not really sure. Do most people really view others as fully fleshed out individuals if they don’t really know them?
You make a lot of good points. It definitely is the self awareness. But it’s also a nice combo platter of emotional neglect that has made me feel like I’m not supposed to be this way around anyone.
These subliminals khan, wanted, emperor, ascension, they work on insecurities and such. But I feel like I take it too far sometimes. Like where’s the line between self improvement vs being unable to accept on an emotional level that I’m a human being that’s inherently flawed. I don’t mean that in a negative way. I mean that there will always be insecurities showing, troubling emotions, bad decisions made, and that’s fine. But it’s not fine to me and I don’t know how to deal with that. I guess I thought I could by reaching some mythical state running these subs that likely doesn’t even exist except as a projection to escape emotional pain.
That was a brain dump, but anyway always appreciate the support and the outside perspective. I’m sure it will give my subconscious something to chew on the next few days.