Some experiences on Primal Seduction:
I naturally fit Wanted’s archetype. But I always felt that I used my good looks to avoid making the first move. As a result, I never felt the need to approach women, and I missed out on many opportunities because of this. I think I’m afraid of rejection, quite honestly, and I need to get over this.
One night, I was out with my friend and his girl; he told me she would bring some friends. She did, but they didn’t drink and were both taken… so we ended up going clubbing without them. It was awkward cause, for the first time, I was third-wheeling. It was uncomfortable; here I am thinking, “I must look so awkward right now, what if these people think I’m the “gay friend” (nothing against being gay, but I want to be seen as a heterosexual male)
Yet, there was this one really cute chick that kept eyeing me. When we locked eyes, it felt like what I would expect Instant Spark does. For that moment, everything went quiet, and I was laser-focused on her. I knew she was into me, and I was clearly into her. But I’ll admit it; I was too afraid to say hi. I was too much in my head. “What do I say, what if I sound stupid, what if my mind goes blank and she thinks I’m boring etc. Hell, I couldn’t even smile at her. To make things worse, I have a very serious face; it’s a bit intimidating, as I’ve been told, so this certainly didn’t help me out.
This is why I’m running Primal Seduction. I need to heal whatever causes me to doubt myself constantly. I got the looks down, I got the flirting and teasing down, but just normal convos, escalations and first impressions… I need to work on these.
I have a tough demeanour; countless times, I’ve been told that I’m “intense and intimidating.” Some girls have even told me I looked plain rude. And it’s the total opposite, I have a huge heart, and I think it’s hurt me many times before, hence why I’ve created these subconscious barriers to avoid reliving that pain.
There are times when I’m training, and hot girls will stare at me, and I’ll either completely ignore them or look at them with my “intimidating look.” But now I’m thinking, why? Why am I so defensive. They’re looking at your cause you’re hot, and you’re mad about that?. I swear I make zero sense. Something as simple as a smile, a smirk or a quick nod would be a much better response.
Again, I’m intense in the gym. And I feel like primal seduction is bringing that primitive side out of me more and more. I feel like a civilized beast when I train. I’m aggressive, In an attractive way. It’s like I have better control over my aggression. I’ve also noticed more women training close to me lately. It’s like they want my attention, but because I’m so focused, they can’t get it.
Last week a girl got on the treadmill right in front of me. I was on the stair master. She hopped on and immediately started doing her hair. Then she did her sprints and a quick jog. I felt like she was putting on a show for me. Like she was trying to get my attention. Our treadmills have tv screens on them, and I had a feeling she was looking at me through it. After her last sprint interval, she turned her head around and looked right at me, smiled, then looked away SUPER fast. That’s when I was like, “Ok, I see you”.
Another time, I was on the stair master again. (Theirs about 10-12 in a row) All empty. This smoking hot chick walks up behind my machine. At first, I thought she was trying to get my attention, but I said, “Fuck it, I’m training right now.” She stood there for a good 2 minutes. Then she got on the machine right next to me. She starts flipping her hair, adjusting her headphones, pulling up her pants. I remain focused. And here we are, I’m blasting music, mouthing the words and everything. And she’s just casually using the machine right next to me. With covid and everything, you’d think she’d keep at least some distance, but no😂.
A few times, I looked in her direction and immediately, she’d turn and look back at me.
Fuck she was so fine; I’m so mad at myself. I love the attention I get; it satisfies my ego. But these opportunities keep presenting themselves, and time and time again, I chicken out. Like I said before, a smile and a “hey” is better than straight-up ignoring a 9 giving you clear IOI’s.
More results on this sub: My dreams. For the last two weeks. Every morning I wake up, it feels like I just had a romantic encounter that I don’t remember. (This could also be part of the submodule alpha in my custom) Like I’ll be half asleep dreaming about seducing a girl, and if I make some mistake, I go back, think of something smoother to say, or find a better action to take, and I move on with the dream.
Like I’m training my subconscious to react in a real-life scenario. And I’ll wake up with so much confidence; I think myself, “I don’t give myself enough credit, I’m smooth asf. Now I gotta do it in real life!”
And back to what I was saying about RICH. I’m getting into Style and grooming. I can’t believe how sloppy and lazy I was. I’m a good-looking dude, and here I am wasting my potential? Wtf! I wish I could slap my 16-year-old self. Neglecting the basics like brushing my teeth at night cause “I’m tired.” Forgetting to wear deodorant, not cutting my hair often enough, dressing like a dork, looking high all the time. AMATEUR.
Now I’m a professional. Everything I do with my looks is deliberate. I got a skincare routine, my grooming is on point, I know how to style my hair now, and my sense of fashion is improving.
My friend even commented on it. He straight up told me, “you used to dress like shit.” I was like, “thanks for letting me know:roll_eyes:.”
New Years eve, I had just finished up at the gym and thought, “I’m gonna style my hair.” So I used some new products and styled it nicely. I was walking home, and some girls were sledding down the hill to my left. I heard one say, “Is that Mat?” Then one came running down at me and hugged me super aggressively. It was a childhood friend of mine. Now her friend followed her, and as soon as we locked eyes, she had this shocked look on her face. She proceeded to say, “Who’s this? Wow, you’re really hot”. She must’ve said that like 3 times😂. Then she’s asked to join in on our hug and comments, “Wow, you smell really good, like REALLY GOOD.” What is that? No, seriously, what is that?
I wanted to flirt with her a bit and take her number etc. But it felt weird doing it in front of my childhood friend. So I didn’t bother.
When I walked away, they kept yelling stuff at me. Her friend especially. “It was nice meeting you; you’re really hot; she’s gonna go for you etc.”
Small changes do make a difference😄