Problems with... šŸŒ

Iā€™m currently using Wanted (which contains diamond) and PS (with SS), but Iā€™ll ask here because it seems more appropriateā€¦

So Iā€™ve been with this girl for the second time andā€¦ no way to wake up my friend down there :skull_and_crossbones:

So is this recon or?

Iā€™d say it happened once or twice in my entire life, I always had the opposite problem actually :sweat_smile:

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Itā€™s happened to me when the woman didnā€™t really turn me on.

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Yeah but she looks very hot to mešŸ¤”

I donā€™t recall Wanted having Diamond in it.

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You are right, I probably got confused because it contains ME

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Iā€™d suggest a stack of Diamond and Paragon. Optionally add in Sex Mastery.

Diamond and Paragon would work well together to fix whatever may be going on.

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But I already have two titles, and PS is supposed to heal sexual issues too

I was going to use Wanted and PS for a whileā€¦

Actually for my next cycle (next monday) I was going to add AM as the third šŸ˜µā€šŸ’«

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Could it just be reconciliation effects? And maybe a washout would resolve?

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Yeah that basically what I was askingā€¦ (maybe someone experienced this)
BTW Iā€™m in washout now, till next monday

Itā€™s obviously not an urgency, but Iā€™m already starting to see thought patterns forming around this issue in my mind

Jerking off perhaps. That was my main pitfall for that matter. :sweat_smile:

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Iā€™m not completely sure what you mean, but Iā€™ve stopped watching porn two months ago (Primal helped here).

I still touch myself, without any image stiuli, 2-3 times a weak without ejaculation. Mainly to train arousal control.
When I do I have no problem at all to get it up

I would look into it to learn whether itā€™s not the cause.

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Sorry I donā€™t get what you mean

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BTW, Diamond is considered as one of the 3 max titles even if itā€™s to be used occasionally?

Like, can one do

PS+Wanted+AM and then when needed Diamond?

Let me explain this.

Whatā€™s happening now is that your brain is rewiring. Before you saw sexual imagery all day every day due to porn. Now you stopped that, the brain is confused and in limbo, so to speak.
Plus, a regular woman might just not as hot as that porn girl that doesnā€™t judge yuo and where no fears are involved.

This is a completely normal effect from dropping the evil thing that porn is.

Plus, sexual titles can also heal this in a way in which it ruins your libido for a bit, because it needs to be broken down and re-established in a positive way.

As in:
Before you were only sexually triggered by T&A. This has to be kicked to the curb.
Afterwards, you will notice there is more to it. Feminine energy, her demeanour, how she moves, other parts of her body, her look, whatnot.

Just an example.

So the advice is: keep powering through, but also maybe do a washout and let the sexual scripting resolve the issue that is currently unfolding.

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Yeah I understand this.
But what is strange if thatā€™s he is behaving like this
Hot girl ā†’ bye bye
My hand without visual stimuli ā†’ no problem
:sweat_smile:

So if itā€™s due to desinthetization from porn (that, by the way, I didnā€™t watched every day and have been without it for long periods in the past) it doesnā€™t make much sense.
That girl is way more arousing then masturbating without visual stimuli :man_shrugging:

Yes, Iā€™m in washout from yesterday till monday

Sure, but a) its easier to do it alone without any judgment and fears involved as in, actually going in with (in) the girl.
Then again, the main reason might be the reshaping of sexual beliefs, needs, and values from the sub. As I said, Iā€™ve been there myself. Itā€™ll come back. Trust it.

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And then itā€™s more like an anxiety issue?

Got it, so your suggestion would be keep going with PS+Wanted?

Thank you!
I noticed while in bed that my mind started producing a lot of thoughts about it (obviously making a shoot impossible) and I donā€™t want it to become a chronic thing.

Yes.

Yeah, but Iā€™d wait a few more days to see if you feel different about sex (with her or in general) and then throw in the next loop. Wanted might have to work through a lot of bs, depending on your past.

This is exactly anxieties. Those always come from the Ego. The ego is the fearful mind. Awareness never judges.
As long as thoughts are all over the place, banana down there is having issues.

Give it time :slight_smile:

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Yeah or PS for that matter.
Indeed another thing I noticed is that the first time I was way more ā€œextrovertedā€ in the way of moving, touching, ā€œhaving control of partnerā€ then I usually amā€¦ right untill the moment before I needed my friend. :grinning_face_with_smiling_eyes:

So yeah there is probably conflicting perspectives trying to reconcile

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